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September 2, 1999
1:13 pm
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To look is fine, I like to look, but my boyfriend stares at other women it's like he goes in a trance for a few seconds, this is what upsets me. I've caught other boyfriends in simple glances, and we have laughed about it. When we have gone dancing - something I love to do, he has to check out everybody, he doesn't flirt, though, some women have come up to him, because they think that he is flirting, he turns away, I would like to be able to dance, and be with him. I am observing other people they look, but their main concern is their partner. He is very attentive to me, except when there are pretty women around, he doesn't miss one. I've told him that looking is OK, but it's the way he looks that upsets me.

September 3, 1999
4:31 am
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I've gone through that with an ex-boyfriend a few years ago, but I never did confront him with his wandering eye.

One thing that I've struggled with with my recent boyfriend is speaking up. Although we recently broke up, I realize that my opinion matters very much. It shouldn't matter what you are bringing up, but it matters how he listens, absorbs, and acts on what you've expressed. I felt that if isn't able to take my feelings into consideration, he doesn't DESERVE my attention and love.

You should ask yourself if he fulfills your needs. And if you are willing to compromise the things you want in your life to be in this relationship. You deserve to be happy and not have to question his actions. Tell him how you feel and see how he reacts. It should tell you if he truly cares about you. He should put your emotions ahead of his wandering eyes. My thoughts are with you...

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