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Jealous of all the attention he gives to the DOG!
January 22, 2005
12:34 am
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this is my first post and I may not reply for a time cause JAck will be home and hooked back into his puter soon,My Man is not ever making me jealous over other women
but he lavishes attention on my dog, and i find myself always wishing there was more for me, i have
said as much and he says that as he has no experience with living with someone, he moved in with me about 10 months ago, and that i should tell him how to act, i said yeah buti get the feeling when i try to be like i dunno have a moment or a kiss he is not really into it, i don't like being jealous of my little old pooch who i love so very much myself and i actually give her the attention in the way i wish i could give and have from him too, just feel like i loose again on something i want, is there any one who has ideas on what i can do?
Thanks and there are really great and amaxing people on this site and i send big warm fuzzies out to all.
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January 22, 2005
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I am sure that is hard for you. My boyfriend has a dog whom he loves very much like a child. It actually makes me happy that he loves his dog so much. I know the dog gets jealous and feels hurt when I am around and I feel bad. I tell my boyfriend to give the dog some attention as well. I am an animal lover and love his dog too. Is your man totally ignoring you and just giving attention to the dog? I know I wouldn't be a happy camper if that were the case. How long have you been with him? Are you married? Has he just recently acted differently? I wish I could give you some advice, but I don't know how long you have been feeling this way. There are great people on this website. Welcome and I hope the best for you.

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January 27, 2005
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Thanks Jewel,

its not that i don't like the attention he gives her i do think that its great but i guess i would love him to be as keen to give me kisses and stuff. He doesn;t totally ignore me but it is usually in the bedroom only. I'm so keen on him and think i will scare him off if i ask directly for what im pretty desperatley after. He has very angry outbursts sometimes and he refuses to tell me he loves me. he announced that he wouldn't be saying that ever after about 1 week together. made me feel sick and had premonition this was not normal. were not married.
really like him.....doesn't feel too good though .....have been through enough crappy rships and fear being in another. Hes really really hot too.Dammit!

January 27, 2005
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hi Jay..why not tell him how you feel!!! that way maybe he can be more like you want him to or at least find out why he acts more lovable with the dog than with you..Communication is far by the best.

January 29, 2005
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Okay - I have to say the title of this thread made me laugh! 🙂

I totally know what you are talking about!

First thing when he walks in the door the doggy gets the love and the attention...

Sitting on the couch watching a movie - one arm around me and the other hand petting the doggy...

Taking the dog to the park - walking hand in hand with me but focusing on the dog...

And then you feel so silly for being jealous of a dang dog. It's just a dog, and rightfully needs some love and attention too. Poor puppy (okay, she's about 10 yrs old) needs some attention after being left alone all day, but he has so little time left that I feel all jealous when the dog gets the love and not me.

Grrr. 🙂 We have had some discussions about it, but I haven't been around him and the dog lately (since I moved out last summer). I'm moving back in during March, and I have to admit I am already worried about this issue.

We will work through it, of course, but I understand what you are feeling. In our case we didn't have good bounderies between us, and I think/hope this time will be better!

🙂

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