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janes....manipulation
May 6, 2001
6:49 pm
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Lydia
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I checked out Dr. Irene's web site and I think it's great. I spent hours reading it and found some helpful information. We can learn soo much from the experiences of others , if we choose to.

My fiance is really trying to communicate with me. We have talked countless hours and have set some distinct behavioral boundaries, which we should have done from day one.

They say every relationship comes with a few major differences, it's how we deal with them that makes a difference. I have driven my point home to him clearly. I've expressed what I will not tolerate and chosen to give him a chance.

He is definitely worth a second chance, he has great moral fiber and love to offer, he just needs to get a grip on this jealousy issue. His ex-wife is an ultra-conservative Baptist woman. She and I are worlds apart in every way and I think he is adjusting.

I pray I'm right. My kids and family adore him. He is such an important part of my life.

Thanks again.

May 7, 2001
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Good luck...

Please remember that YOU cannot change him. If he wants to stay with you he needs to, HAS to change.

May 7, 2001
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Learn to see the pattern he has, it is usually obvious, and then say this is not acceptable, and stand your ground. My man had to go through a couple of programs while seeing some one one on one, it took commitment on his part, and he had to see, and own several aspects of him self that were not pretty. he is trying and much better, but the old him shows sometimes, when he is understress, I just don't take it personal any more. It is a tough long, long road, that will get beter but don't expect perfect for a few years.

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