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I've made a decision
August 6, 2007
11:44 am
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jastypes
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I have decided to divorce my husband. I told him last night (after he read my journal and asked when I was going to divorce him). I figured that was my cue to tell him "as soon as possible." This week I will contact an attorney (although I have no idea how I will afford one), and a therapist for my daughter.

August 6, 2007
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My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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August 6, 2007
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Jastypes! I wish you well.

It's good to do what's right for you!

Once you take out the garbage in your life, I believe that the universe will conspire to help you.

Don't worry about "how" things will happen. Just keep your ball rolling and if this is meant to be, it will be.

Hang in there! I had to do the same thing 10 years ago and had some of the same issues I think you are dealing with.

Lean on us, we can help just by being here and sharing our experience with you.

YOU CAN DO IT!

FREEDOM is your right!

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August 6, 2007
12:51 pm
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wow Jas, glad you made the decision...and i wish you the best of luck, and times may be tough, but if you look at the big picture, the divorce will soon enough be finalized.

August 7, 2007
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Three years ago, after 23 years of marriage i got the courage to leave my controlling husband. I had 3 sons, 12, 21 and 23. The first thing my oldest son said when i told him was "i can't believe it took you this long". All the time i thought i was doing the best thing for my kids by staying but my counselor told me that my kids would respect me more for leaving a bad situation than if i'd stayed. Best of luck to you and your daughter.

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