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IT'S MY BIRTHDAY AND GOD IS GOOD!
June 1, 2007
11:29 am
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Good Morning, Good Morning Everyone.
Today is my birthday and I am truly bless this morning.
I am so truly bless to be among such great peoples here.
This site has really helped me alot. It has taught me to go through the pain and to except that this world and peoples will bring you pain but it is up to that individual whether or not they want to stay stuck there.
Just last week I went through something that I felt I didn't deserve. I almost fell into that hole but I'm glad that I caught myself before I fell any deeper. I felt like I went through all of the emotion all at once and I'm glad that I did, I'm just truly glad that I didn't let each pain of my emotion linger on into it own misery.
My friend -(ex) came over and brought a cake that he made for my birthday. It's funny how when you see them again, if you strong enough you will see them in a difference light. He didn't know that I already knew that he has been with another woman right after HE got mad at me for something so stupid as a phone call. I was so polite the way I always been and he wanted to talk and I told him let's step outside, I knew that it was something that he wanted to say but I just told him that I was thankful for the cake and that he can go back to his little girlfriend because I am done.
That was a kodak moment because his eyes almost drop out of his head. I looked at him and told him that he wasn't hollering now.
Here I was thinking that I was less then a woman, hell naw! He was less of man just by standing there. When he realize that it was over, I could see the tears in his eyes, but my old saying goes. "YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW" and that is a true and firm statement.I said my goodbyes and I was done.
See I know that I am a good woman, I have my days and I do feel pain but I guess when you put your trust in the lord, and let him carry you through the dark times of your life, he will bring you to the other side of your pain. You truly HAVE to let go and let god.
Now I don't want anyone here to get mad because I am talking about my HP, but I was told to spread the word and this is a true testimony.
While I am typing this, he called to wish me a Happy Birthday and I said thank you, now I have to go because this day is about me, not you.
Nappy!

June 1, 2007
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Happy Birthday Nappy! Go live it up!

June 1, 2007
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Happiest of Birthday's!!!

June 1, 2007
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Nappy, another Gemini! it's great.

Have a wonderful day and a GREAT year and wow! how sweet the cake thing. sounds that was a major healing moment.

Happy BDay!!

June 1, 2007
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Thank you all and yes doubleloss that was a major healing moment.
Now he sound sick because he just nail the coffin shut and we have put it to rest and it is done but you know what?
There is nothing that I can do for him now.
Regardless of who does the hurting in the relationship. You better believe that both parties will feel the pain.
Nappy!

June 1, 2007
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Happy birthday nappy. Glad you are having a good birthday so far.

June 1, 2007
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Happy birthday Nappy. Hope it is a day filled with many good things coming your way.

June 1, 2007
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Nappy, Happy birthday. Enjoy it thoroughly

June 1, 2007
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Happy Birthday again. Go on spoil yourself - you deserve it.xxx

June 1, 2007
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Nappy, and thank you for sharing your beliefs!!!

June 1, 2007
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hello Nappy, happy birthday to you. I hope you have a wonderful birthday. You deserve the royal treatment today.

June 1, 2007
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I'LL SING FOR YOU:

Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday dear Nappy!
Happy Birthday to you!

Your Higher Power is watching over you always.

I hope this year brings you joy and peace!

June 1, 2007
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you GO girl!

you are right...trust in your HP and you will make it thru.

you could have easily taken the cake, pretended like you didn't know and let this all slide...until NEXT time.

but you know that next time will come and so will the pain again.

The BEST GIFT you could have gotten for your birthday was the gift you gave yourself - empowerment. You didn't take his crap, play his games.

You stood up for you. And that was probably the best thing you could have done.

Hope your day is an awesome one!

June 1, 2007
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Happy Birthday Nappy, may your days be blessed with beutiful sunshine 🙂

June 1, 2007
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Thank you all so much.
My cup runneth over with so much blessing that is here on this thread today.

Guess what? Someone sent me some beautiful flowers and it was from him. So I just re-wrote on a card and told the delivery guy to take them to his address.

I wrote:

"What you do in the dark, always shine in the light. Your light shine on you when you took the other woman,
now my light is shining on me and it is shining bright."

See when someone does do you wrong, they do reap and sow the same hurt that they have put upon you. Everyone does! See god don't like ugly and he sure is not crazy about pretty either but it is just a blessing to know that this feeling that I have is truly amazing.
Nappy!

June 1, 2007
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Happy Birthday Nappy. I hope your day is wonderful

June 1, 2007
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Wow you are one amazing lady. Sent the flowers back. Wow.

June 1, 2007
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Way to go, nappy!!

June 1, 2007
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you nappy.

I think what you wrote on the card was wonderful. Way to go. I can imagine the empowerment you felt from writing it. And you are right. God doesn't like ugly nor pretty; but he does like those that love him. I know he loves you lots.

Again, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

June 1, 2007
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Happy Birthday Nappy!!! So happy that you feel blessed & God is good!

Have a wonderful day. Eat cake, pamper yourself, buy something for yourself you like.

June 1, 2007
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A very special birthday cyber-hug to my dear friend, Nappy!! Wish I could be with you in person, but please know that I treasure our friendship. You have brought me through many dark and difficult moments with your kind and encouraging postings.

I am SOOO proud of how you handled your ex. You are an inspiration to so many of us!

Love,

Ma Strong

June 1, 2007
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Happy birthday, nappy...with good luck and good health!!!

June 2, 2007
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Happy birthday dear Nappy, have a great day and a blessed life.

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