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It's good to be back, Giggles :)
June 16, 2009
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I have been away from the boards for far too long!!!! I have been through ALOT this year so far. It seems as though the rain just doesn't stop. I know I am strong but come on now! Enough is enough already!!

First of all, my Nana's 1 yr anniversary was last Friday. I cannot believe she has been gone for an entire year. Bless her heart and soul, I miss her soooooo much!!!!

Next, March 19th I found out that my father had passed away, on Feb 13th!!!! My family back in New Jersey never even tried to contact my sister and I. I found out more than a month later. My sis and I tried to call him on St Patricks Day, that was his holiday!!! His number was disconnected. I called my friend whom I just got back in contact with in Feb from NJ, and she searched the internet for 4hrs for me. That's how we found his obituary. Low and behold, my sis and I were mentioned, as was my daughter?! BUT you couldn't call us so that we could hop on a plane to be there for the services and to go through his pics and things. All I want is a pic of him!!! So, basically we missed the services and going through the house. Heartbreaking is all I can say!!!!! When it comes to money family can be sooooooo greedy! Im so beside myself still. They didn't even try to find us. We are listed on Yahoo white pages!!!! ARGH!! Im still angry about the whole situation. I have no closure, and neither does my sister.

AND the dating thing. Oh my gosh is all I can say. I knew there was a reason I wasn't dating or looking!!! Since New Year's I've tried to date 2 guys. Both very nice, very good looking, seemed very stable, and they both turned out to be liars!! The first one told me he was divorced, YEP LIE! Nevermind about my morals and values, as long as he was happy right?! When I found out I told him to lose my number and don't ever contact me again. The second guy I actually dated for over a month, LOL! He was such a genuine guy, sweet, caring, nice to look at the whole nine yards. WELL, today I learned I totally got played! So sad, I am a nice person and don't deserve this stuff. πŸ™ Im a little discouraged at the moment. I am back to focusing on just me and my daughter.

Anyway, how is everyone on here? I've been away for quite awhile and would love to hear from everyone!!! Please update me on life!!! I am so thankful for this site and all of the wonderful people on here.

June 16, 2009
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(((((((((((Giggles)))))))))))

Glad to see you are back.

Sorry about your dad and all that crap.

Not to mention those loser men. lol.

Keep posting.

Autumn

June 17, 2009
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Welcome back Giggles.

June 17, 2009
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((Giggles))

Glad you are back!

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

June 17, 2009
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yay, (((giggles)) is back, glad to see you posting!

June 19, 2009
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((((Billy99))),((((Atalose)))),(((Camer)))), ((((Autumn128)))), Thanks for the support πŸ™‚ How are you all doing? Im just taking it day by day, it's all I can do. So far Im doing good though!!!!!!

June 19, 2009
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Hi Giggles,

Don't know if we have met...so Hi I am Zebra (Z).

I am sorry to hear about the awful situation with your father. Family and money can cause such issues.

The loser men...I am glad you lost. Keep being you and the great person you are. Take care of you and your daughter.

Love, Z

June 19, 2009
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Hey Giggles,

I have been thinking of you and missing you around here. I am so sorry that you have had such a difficult time lately.

Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of your father. I cannot imagine not being told of my parents death and not being able to attend the funeral and say good-bye. I hope that you are able to obtain a picture of your Father. Asking for a picture of your Father is not to much to ask for.

My heart goes out to you. My Mom died 2 years ago June 10 and my Dad has been gone for 16 years. Today my Mom would have been 76. I have my parents pictures framed and on my bedside table. They give me comfort and courage to face everyday.

How is your little Angel doing? How has the EX been with the child support and visitation?

I am glad that you are posting and look forward to talking with you more.

((((Giggles))))

PreciousG

June 19, 2009
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Hi Giggles: So sorry to hear about your father's death, and you not being told about it. Thats just seems incredible that no one would teel you after that long.

Hey, the dating thing? Just try to look at it as entertainment! Some of these guys have pretty wild stories and behaviors, just hang to take it all with a grain of salt. I thought I met "someone" too- but turns out he was married- to a lesbian- hence he thought it was Ok to date others- and kind of leave that little tidbit of info out til later. Geez louise, didn't see THAT coming. Ah, just another story for the dating journals!

sd

June 27, 2009
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(((((Zebra)))) Nice to meet you πŸ™‚ I've been around these boards for 3 or 4 years now. I come and go.
How are you doing?

(((((PreciousG)))) Hello friend, how are you doing these days? It's been hard dealing with my dad's passing after the fact. Words cannot even explain what I feel towards what I thought was my "family". No family would ever just not contact you and inform you that your father has passed away. Sad. Anyway, what's new with you? Looking forward to hearing about lifes happenings πŸ™‚

((((Sdesigns)))) I love your outlook on the dating thing. I figure, it is what it is, and if I can have fun in the meantime, so be it πŸ™‚ Im not going to take it so seriously. How are you doing these days?

June 28, 2009
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((((((((((GIGGLES))))))))))

June 28, 2009
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Hi Giggles: I'm OK, I guess. could be better but certainly could be worse, so have to look at the bright side.

I'm not dating right now- in fact most of the men give me the creeps right now- ha ha. Going to just wait til a good one comes along. In general though, I have no business so lots of worries, like everybody else.

Thanks for asking. ((((Giggles))))

June 30, 2009
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((((Friendma))))))-How are you ?????

(((((sdesigns)))) You are more than welcome for asking :)! My pleasure.

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