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It's funny how things turn around.....
March 24, 2008
11:28 am
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peacesoul
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When I came to this site over 3 years ago, it was because I was going through a terrible break up with a guy I was with for a while. He cheated on me a few times and was pretty cruel and demented at the end.

After the final break up, I went total NC, went into 6 months of codependency therapy and never looked back. My life was super!

A yr after the break up, he sent a quick hello email. I replied kurtly
Then last yr another email to tell me he's move to San Fran. I was like "adios and good riddance"

He would always send me little emails here and there, but I was always kurt.

Two weeks ago, the loser ex called me at work to tell me he moved back to town and would I like to meet up?!
First time I spoke to him in 3 yrs.
LOL.....I was like "no thanks"

Then he emails me again to ask if I want to go away for the weekend with him.
I replied "no thanks"

Then he called me again on Sat to say "are you sure you don't want to come away"

I never answered the call or returned the voice mail msg.

Amazing.....are men really that, well, stupid?! (sorry to the nice guys out there)

If I were vindictive, I could play this guy and break his heart, but I won't cause I have to much class.
Boy how things turn around

March 24, 2008
5:51 pm
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peacesoul...wow, what a story. I am glad you didn't respond. Maybe this jerk will learn how to treat women some day,but I really doubt it. You set up your boundaries and stood by them, and you deserve better than him. Way to go!!! And yes, you're right, it would have felt good to get even. But you're above that šŸ™‚

March 25, 2008
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peacesoul, you are so right to avoid this guy. he is sounds like a control freak who is seeking gratification through trying to gain the control he once had over you.

March 26, 2008
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Wonderful post!

I am five months into no contact with my ex.

Yes, it is hard on some days. I just hope I have the chance to flip him the bird while I am driving in my new convertible!

March 31, 2008
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This guy is not a control freak but a sociopath.
He really is a messed up person

He keeps txting me and a little part of me wants to "play" with him.

I can tell he's dying to talk to me.
Of course I won't or EVER will.
This guy is the bottom of the barrel.

So get this, I just went on Facebook and typed in his name. I see he has a profile.
Oh so funny, he's got a ton of pics of him with what looks like his girlfriend.
Poor girl, if I cared I would warn her what a sick person he is.

This guy was posting his profile on S&M msg boards with pics of himself tied up in dog chains looking for men to screw. I also caught him on about 5 diff singles web sites and in a one month period msg'ed 432 women.
I also caught him with a huge gash on his penis. I think someone else did that to him,

very sick guy.....It really makes me sad that I ended my last relationship 5 weeks only because I could not handle his kids and b/c he was moody. This last ex is a KING next to this the ex ex.

March 31, 2008
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oooohhhh, dreamy šŸ˜‰

March 31, 2008
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HAHAH.......VERY dreamy

LOL

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