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IT'S BEEN NEARLY A YEAR! WOW!
June 28, 2007
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Next month will be my one year anniversary from stumbling across this site!!

What a year! I came home from work today with nothing to do, so I decided to take a little flashback to the past and read some of my old threads throughout the year. So much written about the same thing. HER. IT REALLY IS A ROLLERCOASTER RIDE THAT i HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO STOP. What a ride it has been, full of ups and downs and corkscrews and loops.

I have learned much from my many trials, but there is still so much to learn. I have innitiated contact and ended contact so many times this year, and presently I find myself in a waiting position. I know she'l call and I know what I have to do.

I read one of my threads that I posted about 6 months ago. I was feeling much like I'm feeling now, thinking about how to end no contact with HER. A wise person told me "when she calls, just hang up, you owe her no excuses, sooner rather than later she'll get the point."

Thats the only way with this girl, I tried to end it gently with respect 4 months ago and she broke no contact. If I try to explain why I don't want to speak to her anymore, it'll work for awhile and then she'll call when she thinks I'm over it. I know her.

So if she does call again, and she will, the only thing she'll hear from my side is the click of my phone. 🙂

June 28, 2007
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Good for you sweetheart. In April it had been 2 years since I found this site. I wonder how long Mamacinnamon has been here and Rasputin there are a lot of people that have been here for years. This site has been such a blessing in my life. I sometimes go back to find my old threads and wow have I changed.

June 28, 2007
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Santino...That's what the healing journal is all about. Knowing that we are not where we used to be although we still may not be where we want to be. Keep on keeping on:)

June 28, 2007
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you've come a long way Santino, and now you know what you need to do if she calls again...keep up the good work!!!! (((camer)))

June 28, 2007
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Santino, congrats on a year. You have a lot to offer. Would love to see you respond to some of the posts. You probably have a lot more wisdom since a year ago. In AA that say what helps people stay sober is helping another alcoholic. I bet the same is true for this site. Again, congrats!!!!!

June 28, 2007
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I think Lettinggo is totally "right on!" You do have alot to contribute to these threads, Santino. I am hoping to see you posting on some of them.

- Ma Strong

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