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IT'S "ALL ABOUT COUNCELING"
August 27, 2006
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So it's been about a month since I broke up with my ex girfriend, wow, how time flew by. I went back a month and started to read some of my old threads and responses I got from my drama filled month. Wow, what a diffrent a month makes. As I read my old threads I felt good. There are so many good people here who gave me some awesome advise and I'm very greatfull. I remember reading my first thread (Should I hate her?, July 25) and how hurt and angry I was about my situation. I remember the night, I was surfing web sites for a site that could help me with my problems, and I strolled onto this site. I registered and spilled my guts to "all about counceling" how lucky and gratefull I am to be able to get advise from people who read what probably seemed like never ending threads about the same thing over and over again. (Sorry) šŸ™‚
But thanks, I still think of her, but I'm convinced with one thing, it's over and it's for the best. I truelly believe that. I've learned that to be happy with someone else, I have to learn to be happy with me. No one can love me, unless I love myself, and I'm working on that. A month ago I was totally destryoed and thought that no time would heel this pain and now I know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I still hurt from time to time and I still think of her alot, but I know that 1 day I wont, with the help of all of you I was able to learn from my mistakes and move on. Thank You All So Very Much, I will Never Forget It. Santino.

August 27, 2006
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Good for you, Santino. A month can make a huge differece if you let it... that's the key. You've come a long way. Just imagine what two months will feel like! My mom is at her nine week mark, and I swear, she's a different person... confident, happy, and not depressed anymore. She has no regrets. You're getting there... great job!

August 27, 2006
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Thanks Shaney, you are right, I can't wait to see how I'll be this time next month.

August 27, 2006
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way to go Santino, see how far you have come...its all up to you, and you are doing the right things and on the right path!

August 27, 2006
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Thanks Camer, much appreciated!

August 28, 2006
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Good for you, Santino. It's hard to hear people say "it will get better" because it's so hard to believe when you are hurting. But it really does get easier, I don't know how or why, I'm just grateful that it does. Hang in there.

SO

August 28, 2006
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That makes 2 of us, thanx starting over

August 28, 2006
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Happy to read this, Santino.

Sometimes it's difficult to believe things can change (especially when they don't). I do know that time lessens grief.

August 28, 2006
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thanx brynnie

August 28, 2006
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Santino,

I'm so glad that you are beginning to feel better.

This site was a tremendous help to me as well. I too, had loads and loads of threads rehashing the same old issues over and over again. I thank God for the wonderful people here and their time and patience. And it's paying off. I am light years away from where I was 2 years ago.

I wish you continued sucess on your journey.

Lolli

August 28, 2006
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San - Keep up the great work. Kudos!!!

(((San)))

August 28, 2006
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Feel so good for you. A month does make a big difference. And yes, this site is a life saver! Keep being happier every day.

August 28, 2006
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Thanx for caring

August 29, 2006
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Nice to hear good news. Well done Santino.

It does feel good to provide support and see it bear fruit, like some emotional coaches we all extol eachother to "let's get out there and not suck!" j/k "let's do the best we can and be happy with that" ; )

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