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it always comes back
July 11, 2007
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helpplease
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about two years ago i joined this online group distraught about a breakup. i was really flailing, a total emotional wreck about this guy who i thought i would never get over. he moved to california and began living with this girl who ended up getting pregnant and with whom he has a baby girl now. i always wondered how in the world they made it work. our relationship had been vitriolic and full of highs and lows. extremes. bad ones. yesterday, he called me. she had just kicked him out of the house. she had found all the emails he had sent me throughout their relationship. funny because i remember the last fight he and i had was over text messages he had been sending her.

i am in a really good place now. i had never and haven't since this guy given up so much of myself for someone. and it was amazing to get a call from him so soon after his incident. i was amazed at how incredibly obviously manipulative he is.

i have created a world i am proud of. i don't think he can say the same for himself. but at least i don't have to worry about my karma, anything i've done coming back to me.

July 11, 2007
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help..
good for you!
just when we think that the people that we break up with have it all together...it seems that they don't!

we were once in that relationship..and as long as it took, we got smart too!
my ex-h just broke up with his g/f that I thought they had the great relationship, and I was the problem!

nope, seems that he has not changed at all.

although the other girls seem to figure it out faster! 🙂

you will make it, you are doing it and do you really want to go back to that?
I bet you don't!

nvr

July 11, 2007
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you got it!! never...ever, ever.

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