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September 29, 2008
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I got no one to talk to about this. I keep piling everything up inside.

September 29, 2008
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Hey Antagonist, that is the reason why you have this site, keep posting and get things out, you will feel so much better!!

September 29, 2008
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I know CAMER but there are other people on this board with more serious problems than mine. Mine is nothing compared to other people's issues.

I have a lot of anger, regret in me. I wish I could have my 3 years back. I'm also afraid, I really am afraid that she is will hurt me. She has done it before, what is going to stop her this time.

September 29, 2008
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Hi Antagonist,

You should not hold back from writing (and sharing and venting) here just because there are some problems that may be worse than yours. Your problems/issues/concerns are important to you so that is all that matters.

I understand the regret but there is nothing you (or anyone else) could do about time lost in a relationship. Just think of it as a learning experience and perhaps that might help ease the pain. You certainly know more about yourself now then you did in the beginning of this relationship. You also know what you will and will not tolerate any longer. You have learned to recognize and confront those red flags whereas before you might have just ignored them or rationalized them away.

I take it that you are rather young. You are most likely going to have many more relationships in your life. Each one will bring some new life experience/lesson with it.

With regard to her hurting you, you have to make certain that that does not happen. Take back your power. You have control over who comes into your life. If you want no contact from her, then stick to that and do not allow her to enter into your world.

You asked "what is going to stop her this time?". The answer is YOU are going to stop her this time. Do not accept her calls or any communications from her. I know you see her as you said you live close by. But you are not required to talk to her. Don't allow her to manipulate you in any way.

STAY STRONG PLEASE.

Come here to vent when you feel that you are weakening. Most of us have been through heartbreak/heartache. We talk from experience when we say in time you will be feeling stronger.

So anyway, keep posting. YOur problems are important to us.

I look forward to hearing one positive thing you did for yourself today.

sad

September 29, 2008
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What (((sad))) said is so true, this place isn't just for people with "huge" problems, and that taking priority, this site is for any issues, whether big or small....and we are all here to help eachother out.....so yes, keep posting!!

October 1, 2008
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Well what you know, she called me again today, than txts followed. Things like I really need to talk to you, and what not.

I did talk to her, but I held my ground. I asked her if she is pregnant and if I am the father, of course that set her off but I wanted to make sure that is not why she is trying to get a hold of me. I talked to her for 10 minutes. She asked me if I despised her, and I told her that at the moment I do and that she treated me bad. She agreed and apologized. I told her I can't talk to her anymore and she agreed. Said our byes and left it at that. Hopefully that is the last time I will hear from her.

October 2, 2008
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That will not be the last time you hear from her.

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