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Is That So Wrong?
September 27, 2009
7:24 pm
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CanAlwaysHaveHope
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On another site I belong to...(it's a diary site), I'd taken an interest, in one of the people I used to read's both, background, and picture, and...when she'd seen and realized that...she was very offended by it, and decided to block me from having anymore access to her diary!

Anyway...she told me, in a note, (that you can use to communicate with people there), that..."If I were to write an entry about her, blasting her out, for her having blocked me access from reading her diary, OR, if I sent her any messages on another site that we're both apart of...then, she'd have me reported to the owner of the diary site!

I think...she might've felt that I was harassing her, but...really...I just like the different backgrounds, and pictures, that people use there! (Now...I'm afraid and weary, that, if I mention ANYTHING in reference to her, and this incident, then, she'll report me to the owner of the site, and my diary, (which is very important to me), might very well likely, get deleted and removed on me, and, I might be forbidden from the site, Forever!)

And, I really don't want anything like that, to happen!

So...how do you think I should approach this?

Do you think that...my choice of expression, and writing, has been at all, in any way, compromised, by what she'd told me?

This has been really bothering me, since I'd read, what she'd wrote to me, in the note, last night! And, it's also continuing to do so, today, as well!

Sigh!

Thanks!

September 28, 2009
10:48 am
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I don’t see how your expression or writing has been compromised unless you have been writing all along about her.

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

September 28, 2009
11:10 am
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Internet sites share information. It should be common knowledge that others can view info on that site.

Did you ever write to her, or respond to her posts or pictures? If not, then her reactions are over the top and i wouldn't worry. She put up a wall and you should respect that.

Just move on.

You could contact the site moderator if you have questions about yours or her conduct.

If this site has a feature that shows the users who are viewing, and viewing is the only thing done, I don't see why she feels so threatened.

If one doesn't want others to freely view their Info then they don't post on the internet!

Or they simply block.

Your diary is your authentic self. So why alter that due to someone elses insecurities or insults?

There will be other doors open, and other people willing to share, and accept you as you are. Perhaps focus on that.

be Well!

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