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IS MY LIFE OVER
January 25, 2005
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DEELY
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HOW DO YOU REBUILD WHEN YOU GIVE EVERYTHING TO SOMEONE WHO TOOK EVERYTHING YOU HAD. HOW DO YOU STOP BEING CODEPENDENT? HOW DO YOU STOP ALL THE WALLS FROM COMING DOWN? I FEEL LIKE MY LIFE IS ENDING. I FEEL LIKE I AM A LOSER AND NOT WORTH A ANYTHING.

DEELY

January 25, 2005
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deely im sorry for your pain
io dont know how much i can help other then to say that we are here for you,
if there was a pill we could all just take im shure i would have made it allready, sold it to everyone here, and become a billionair

January 25, 2005
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Stop thinking!

You are not worthless, you are one of Gods creations, he dosen't make junk.

You need to rebuild for yourself, might I suggest a Co-Dependants Anonymous meeting or the next best thing Al_anon!

Your life could be ending if you have the strength to let it, an empty, isolated life maybe? If that life ends maybe you will start a new life just for yourself, a healthy one.

With every ending, comes a new beginning, You will be fine. You are reaching out, good for you. If you read some of my threads in the past few days you will see that i was where you are now, and today I am having a good day.

You will find a way if you allow yourself to.

January 25, 2005
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Hi Deely, I can say for a fact that you are not a loser and that you are worth much. Stop being codependent? It takes time, wanting be learn, wanting to change, taking what you know and using it. Some CODA meetings, 12 Step Groups are great places to start to rebuild self worth, and to realize what you are feeling is okay, but if left un-checked could ultimately be detrimental to you. ALso these threads are FULL of insight, information, thoughts, struggles, successes, etc. so keep posting here as well. To give all to someone and then lose it all, hurts.

January 25, 2005
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We FEEL how we THINK.............what are you thinking?

Turn down the intensity of negative thoughts and turn up the postive ones, and you will feel better. Sometimes I can only make it through one moment at a time, but it does pass.

(((KWMike)))

Keep posting!

January 25, 2005
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(((HUGS))) and support to you. Every day is a new day. Look around you at the beauty God has created. Then look in the mirror and realize that he created you! The most beautiful thing of all!! I know that some days are so much harder than others but try and stay positive.

January 25, 2005
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1) There is no such thing as codependency. Stop believing in it.

2) You start from where you're at.

3) Realize that you are not the only person who has or is going through this. Everyone is special. No one is that special.

4) Stop focusing on your problems and start thinking of how you can help others.

5) Ignore the "stop thinking" advice. Unless you have access to major pain killers or want to drink yourself into oblivion you're never going to be able to stop thinking. The best thing to do, as I stated in four, is to think of how you can help others.

January 25, 2005
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THANK ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR WORDS. I WILL START LIVING ONE DAY AT A TIME. YOU WILL ALL HEAR FROM ME ON WED. THANK YOU AGAIN.

DEELY

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