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is it worth being hit?
January 22, 2007
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Shaney!!

"at least one quarter pounder off each of my thighs." Hahahaha!

January 23, 2007
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hahah, i love maccas too!

moving into my new place tomorrow, very excited! i also got some retail therapy in today too, so that was awesome, my best mate from home came to visit, she bought me flowers it was nice.

yeah feeling pretty good at the moment, lots of good things are happening, and im having heaps of fun, last night me and tubs got all dressed up, tux for him, and cocktail dress for me, heels, hair, makeup the whole lot, and we went out to maccas for dinner, then to the pool hall to play soem pool, it was so much fun, i love getting dressed up for no reason ahha, then we came home played poker and drank cocktails till i eventually passed out still wearing my cocktail dress. it was a good night!

im feeling so much happier, the improvment over the past week has been huge. im having heaps of fun, and heaps more to come hope!

dans still buggin me a little with the occasional msg and stuff, but im still not replying to any of them, not to upset him, but just to avoid temptation, i know ill never get back with him, but i figure i might aswell avoid any temptation, cause hes good at sucking people in and making them think what he wants them too.

and since we broke up i havent even thought about cutting myself, im really proud of myself for that, so was dan he asked me if i had done it, and i said no he said "well even though i put you through alot of shit at least ive helped you in some way" i think if i can get through this without doing it i have done well, and im sure i can get through many stressful nights at home by myself worrying about uni work and such.

love you all
ju

January 23, 2007
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ju,

I am glad that you are doing good with stopping the cutting.

When I first stopped I would count the days...then weeks...then months...etc.

I felt really excited to make certain land marks without cutting and if I was tempted I would remember that it had been 5 months and I would have to start all over again if I did it.

I hope you can get all the support you need and I am sorry that getting into therapy may have been at the cost of being with an abusive and controlling man.

But now you are educated and can take care of this problem if it comes up by getting into counseling. 🙂

February 20, 2007
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ju,

Are you still around? I think about you from time to time and hope you are happy and ok.

February 20, 2007
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Artist Girl

I think about her too. How have you been?

February 20, 2007
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bevdee...I have been "ok"....my thread is called "New Here: I guess I am codependent"

Do you have a thread that you post to a lot?

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