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Is it ok to meet for coffee?
September 28, 2009
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cpt1212
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He cried lots today gave me a sob story asked for $ for a prescription - I saw clearly what you all have been saying - no doubts. I said no, I can't, I know my patterns. Please reach out to the men of NA. I said no. I didn't use an excuse.

September 28, 2009
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Good, you don't need to offer any excuses. How do you feel now?

September 28, 2009
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Good for you cpt1212 …..way to go!!!!!

YOU, YOU AND YOU and your recovery must come first before anything or anyone else right now.

I am really proud of you I hope you are as well.

Atalose

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September 28, 2009
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Thanks - had a moment of clarity when he asked for the $. I feel relieved, and surprised that I did it and a little bad because he didn't show up for group tonight. I suspect he might be using.

September 29, 2009
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It does sound like he’s using but what sounds better is that you didn’t let him use you!!!!

Glad you feel relieved because usually with us codies we see these kinds of red flags with other people but often just continue on getting ourselves deeper and deeper into their lives, drama and messes.

Atalose

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