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Is he an idiot or jerk part 2
October 5, 2001
11:03 am
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Elboogie
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I want more than anything to call this guy and talk it out. I really do but he is just soo unresponsive. If i send him an email he doesn't email me back for a week and usually doesn't even respond to what i've written. I am at the point where I feel like I am bothering him by trying to get in contact with him. I want to hold on to him so badly but he just cant treat me like this. But for me rather than wanting to get out of the situation, I want him to change. Any advice?

October 5, 2001
11:30 am
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One of my best friends who I've known since I was 8 had this same problem. She moved out to TX for grad school while her boyfriend stayed here in FL, then they broke up and she got mad that he stopped contacting her.

I admit I am very confused by this desire. For me, I break up and that's it! No more contact from me ever again until the end of time. If I see them out and about I'll say hi, but no phoning or working it out. What's there to work out any more? He's moved on! So should you!

Personally, I think it's so much healthier to just cut off contact with ex's. Otherwise it gets complicated and ugly and uncomfortable.

Anyway, my friend finally got my message. She's been in TX for about 3 months now and is finally dating again, thank god. She's actually met a guy who isn't an asshole, how amazing! I never let her forget how much of an ass her ex was, though.

It just amazes me how we women will date assholes and think that it's perfectly ok to be treated like crap, and then we want to stay with the asshole come what may! Weird.

October 5, 2001
12:08 pm
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Just drop the whole thing. Forget you met him. This isn't doing you any good at all. Meet someone else, even if it's rebound time.

I know how you feel, though. It's like having some disease coursing through your veins and you can't get it out. The only cure is time, friends, and new lovers...

Good luck to you.

October 5, 2001
12:31 pm
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Sweetie, it hurts, it feels wierd, and this will pass. You just post here every time you want to call that bugger. Type it out, scream on line in capitol letters, but don't call,leave him alone.

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