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ipw/jag.....where are you
May 16, 2006
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typo.......fun with YOU guys again.

Duh! Sorry! (giggle, giggle)

'Night!

May 16, 2006
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Dont blame you, its one of the spots I have always wanted to go to. The pictures are all beautiful, but I hear it gets really cold.

Jenn, you are a good mom, and i know I wont move from here until my kids are grown and out, thats just the way it is, but when they go, i am on the road, gonna get myself a place in the middle of nowhere, couple of acres, horses and the works.

Thats my retirement!

May 16, 2006
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night all! be on around 11am eastern time, irish, see you then, Jenn, talk to you soon sweetie!!!

May 16, 2006
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Oh boy, Snow! You might be sorry to opened that one up! LOL! (Man, do I hate being the 'bad' guy!!) HeeHee!

Jen

May 17, 2006
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hey Irish, You around??

May 17, 2006
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Yep! Well, so far so good. I haven't run into him yet.

How's your morning?

May 17, 2006
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good, remember to hold your ground, and its what YOU want that matters, no control for him.

My morning, well, lets see, woke up, worked out, went on 2 appointments, negotiateing 3 deals, going golfing this afternoon(only 9 holes), working from 4-7 then going dancing.

Pretty much a full day!!!

question, are you west coast or east coast??

May 17, 2006
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Midwest, Ohio.

Actually it sounds like you are having a fun day! Goofing (Golfing) and dancing? Yee Hah!!!

Oh yeah, and I found out that the little weasel was supposed to pitch one of MY ideas, as his own today. I have to tell you that did a lot for my resolve today!!

May 17, 2006
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It never ends!!!

They always do stupid stuff, you will find that the more little sh-t he does, the more your resolve to go your own way.

Proud of you Irish, maybe soeday I will be in Ohio and stop for a cocktail;!!!

May 17, 2006
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Sounds good!

Yes, I have come to realize that anger is my motivating force! Must be that Irish Attitude!

Hey, tonight when you go dancing....ask them to play "Meet me in Montana". It's a really, really old song and I have no idea who sings it, but I'll bet it makes you think of Jen and me!

May 17, 2006
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I dont need a song to make me think of you two, I do that on my own!!!!

Make sure your anger stays directed as to where it should be, not at the innocent, I fell into that trap, and it can be easy to do..

Stay focused on you, and getting away from him.

and I am sure the Irish Anger is something to be reckoned with!!

May 17, 2006
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Actually one of the funniest things my exh used to tell me was that he couldn't believe how much it took to make me angry, but watch out when I was!! My anger is very, very focused right now!

But you know what, in the moments today that I haven't been focused on anger...I've felt pretty darn good. I even noticed that I'm standing straighter and looking straight ahead, not at the ground like I used too.

Okay, so where's my joke???

Here's one from my son.....

"What flies around the school at night?"

May 17, 2006
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dont know??

May 17, 2006
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An "ALPHA-BAT"! Cute huh? Okay, cut me a break, he's just a little guy!

Are you on your way to go golfing?

May 18, 2006
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Hey Irish,
I was out last night doin my dancing thing, how are you sweetie??

May 20, 2006
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You guys around?

May 20, 2006
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Jennifer,
When's the big party? Tomorrow? Did you get something totally fabulous to wear to knock everyone's socks off?

May 20, 2006
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Hey Irish,

I am around, a bit under the weather, Jenn posted earlier, i read that she was having a bit of a rough day. Was letting her be cause of the party.

how are you??

May 20, 2006
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I'm okay. What's wrong? Are you sick? Stomach, head?

May 20, 2006
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Hey Sweetie, get some sleep. Talk in the morning? You take care of YOU!!! Sweet dreams!

May 23, 2006
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Joe,

I haven't heard from you since you said you weren't feeling well. Are you okay?????

Jen, Have you heard from him?

May 23, 2006
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Okay, are you guys mad at me? Have you both run off to Fiji and are drinking pineapple drinks on the beach?

I had a "rotten, terrible, no good day". It seems like everyone here is getting better and I'm stuck in neutral. I haven't had any contact, but I'm getting that old familiar "mad at the world" feeling. I know I'm starting to shut down, I can feel it. You know, just go through the motions? That old Co-dependent feeling that I'm all I've got. That there is no one I can trust. Even my best friend (in Montana) is mad at me for telling her that she shouldn't have a cyber-affair with her ex. I didn't say what she liked, so now after 22 years of friendship, she won't return my calls. She says I don't understand, when in reality, I just don't want her to get hurt again by this idiot. I should know...he was my first boyfriend. Anyway, I'm just whining.

I really miss you both.

May 23, 2006
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Hey, IG. I'm here. I haven't heard from, or seen Joe around. I hope he is ok.

I've just been very busy with the graduation and all. Things are finally starting to wind down, and feeling normal, again.

I'm sorry you're having such a rotten day, IG! Codepency can really bite, sometimes, huh? I feel your frustration with this! Just hang in there, and do the best you can, like you've been doing, and in time, it will get easier. I know that is hard to believe at the stage you're at right now, but I promise, it does get better!

(((IG)))

Take care, Sweetie!

Jennifer

May 24, 2006
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Jen, Please tell me you're around right now?! HELP!!!

May 24, 2006
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I'm freaking out. A co-worker just approached me and asked me if I knew what was wrong with my EXB. I said I had no idea, and asked why...She said she just called his voice mail and it said that he is out of our office INDEFINITELY. I have no idea what is going on, I don't know if he's okay, I don't know if I should call him. I can't breathe and my head is spinning. I'm really scared! What should I do?????

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