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Insecurity or intuition
August 6, 2012
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tenderheart
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I have a feeling that the relationship I am in is coming to an end. I want to ask questions, like are you letting go but I don't want to lead him into that direction. I don't want to make it easy and I am not ready to lose it. To cry and be depressed because I don't think I can pull it together.

August 7, 2012
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Tender Heart,
It's hard to accept, but everything has a start and an end. The seasons change, they come back. Sometimes we love hard and long and it's over and we know it. Sometimes it comes in unison and both people are ready to let go, other times one person is shocked & wants to hold on tightly. The hurt and anger and depression that comes after it is over is normal and unfortunately, you must go through it to move on. Once you do, you will be ready to open a new door and maybe find a new love or just accept peacefully that you and the old person cannot be together anymore.
It's difficult if this person was a an integral part of your life and I understand that it will leave you perhaps feeling abandoned, but try to remember that you were part of the union as well. That means that you still have yourself as a friend and it's a chance for you to remember how wonderful you really are, and that one day your wonderful will meet someone as lovely as you again.
Let this person go. If they cannot stay, they cannot. Nothing you say or do will change it.

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August 7, 2012
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Bevdee is now posting as tenderheart.

August 7, 2012
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Bevdee is posting as Frank Davis stating she (bevdee) is posting as tenderheart.

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September 26, 2012
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It won't be easy but if it's bound to end then just let go. It's normal to feel pain and be hurt cause that's part of life. When you don't get hurt then it means your life is meaningless as well. There is this thing we called "TIME" and time heals pain. All you need is time, not today, not tomorrow but you'll never know when you will finally recover. The important thing is you should learn to move on and accept everything. That way, it'll be easier for you pull yourself together and get back on track.

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