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I'm the weakest in the relationship
January 22, 2005
4:34 pm
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blondieb
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Hi! I'm new here. Just looking for some advice. Before I got married, I considered myself a very strong woman. Now 2 years into my marriage I somehow have become this insecure, "weak" person that I don't respect. I want some ideas on how to regain control in my marriage after I've already accepted the role as the "weaker" one in the realtionship. How do you turn things around??? Thanks!

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January 22, 2005
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Hey Blondie..... You have come to the right place. People here are very supportive and give great advice. My thoughts are for you to find where you think you lost control. Do you do things for yourself? Are you all about your husband? You didn't give very much info......Can you shed any more light on you situation?

January 22, 2005
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BlondieB- i can totally relate...i was a strong independent woman that lived on my own , had a great place, then i hooked up with my boyfriend and was cleaning toilets and making cookies...i didn't do nearly as many things on my own as i used to and when he was at work i made incredible meals and thought about him and couldn't wait for him to get home...I'm the redhead on Desperate Housewives...everything is delicious but I was totally in denial about my life or about avoiding living it...now i fear he and his friends are laughing at me because i have no job, no money and no place to live.

January 22, 2005
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sorry I couldn't be of any help...my relationship just ended . thanks for letting me vent

January 22, 2005
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hi blondie...start doing things for you...and set up boundaries...of not accepting behavior or things that you don't like from others. This will give you control and start making your life about YOU and your goals and dreams and not putting all the focus on HIM....good luck!

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