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im so unhappy, lonely, confused...
May 3, 2007
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i feel like no one cares about me. I mean, if I died or something, I know it would be a loss to some and those who do care would feel bad - but in day to day life, no one has time for me. i feel like no one cares about me. no one talks to me. im pretty much ignored by all.

May 3, 2007
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will someone please talk to me?

May 3, 2007
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Hi Robbie,

I will talk with you. Tell me a little about yourself?

May 3, 2007
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You feel unhappy. What has happened to make you feel confused?

May 3, 2007
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I hate feeling like people are ignoring me. When I read that I just had to respond.

May 3, 2007
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thank you MJ...i'm at work so kinda doing this undercover.

i just .....have no one that cares really. like i said - they do, but not on a day to day basis. i could disappear and no one would know.

May 3, 2007
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Ok, I understand that you are at work.

What kind of work do you do?

May 3, 2007
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im sort of a bookkeeper...nothing official...helping my brother with his businesses.

i do billing, banking, paybales...office work - stuff like that.

im the only office employee so im alone. have no one.

im also single so i go home to no one.

i want so bad to be a part of my family but they dont have time for me.

May 3, 2007
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Sounds like you could use a friend or two! What are some of your hobbies or things you like to do?

May 3, 2007
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yes - i really need a friend.

i am into music and play in a wind symphony. but none of us hang out outside of music.i have also lost my ambition for music right now.

i like to read. and watch videos.

but lately, all i do is sleep. thats all i want to do.

May 3, 2007
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Sounds like you are depressed. I sleep alot when I am avoiding my reality.

What books to you like to read? Fiction? Self-help?

May 3, 2007
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im on medication for depression and fibromyalgia ...the pain is under control but...

i dont know if im depressed or just tired.

May 3, 2007
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i like childrens books. or true stories.

i love all the torey haydn books.

May 3, 2007
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Sounds like you could use a fun friend to go out with and create some play in your life!

May 3, 2007
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So how did you hear about Mamacinnamon?

May 3, 2007
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yes - thats what im confused about..

on the one hand i would like that - on the other hand i have no ebergy for it.

May 3, 2007
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We use to have a poster here at this site whose name was firefly~, you have many similiarities with her!

May I ask how old you are?

May 3, 2007
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i wish my sister would call me. if i dont call her - she never calls me.

if i never asked to spend time with her and her family - i wouldnt. that makes me feel so sad.

May 3, 2007
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im in my 30's...how old are you?

May 3, 2007
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Its nice to be in a give and take relationship with your sister and your family. Why do you think your family is too busy?

May 3, 2007
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I will be 50 next month!

May 3, 2007
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its too much to get into right now...need to get back to work

thanks for listening

May 3, 2007
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Since this is an anonymous site, somebody is breaking somebodies anonymity? I went back and researched some threads and the similiarities are pretty peculiar. And that's all I have to say about nothing 🙂

May 3, 2007
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Robbie:

First off, are you a he or a she? So I know which context to use.

I know the feeling you are saying. Folks get into their own routines and don't think that there are others they could include or that could be hurting from feeling ignored. It's sad but true. I do feel if you died that you would be surprised at how devastated some would be, ie your sister. Yes, life would go on because they have no choice but to live life if they live, but there would be a permanent hole or sadness in their heart that only you filled and then took from them if you were not here anymore. Do you feel suicidal?

I think it's great you are into music. I am also into music. I can no longer play because of my hands, but I listen to it and sing most all day long. Funny is when I am upset I even will listen to music. Turn it way up and just get absorbed into it. What do you play in the wind area?

One thing I want to say is that yes, you do seem depressed. Do not, however, let it take you away from your music or the things you love. Once depression sets in and you let it win then it is so very hard to get your joy back. Don't let that happen. Sadness can rob us of so much.

I too am a fibro sufferer. I am so glad you are under control w/ your pain. Do you take lots of meds? I ask because some of those meds can make you depressed and/or more lethargic which leads to a depression also. Do you think maybe part of this distance you feel from your family could be from the illness? How long have you been diagnosed? and how well has your famly, and most importantly you, accepted your illness?

Ok, that's a lot of questions so I'll stop for now till I hear from you again. I also want to say you may speak to anyone here and most are very willing to listen and help. MJ is one of those helpful ones. Also, you may get material that upsets you. What we say here since we have such a wide range of folks and beliefs is for you to take the parts that help you heal and leave the others for someone else that could be reading along to help them.

I am glad to meet you Robbie. 🙂

May 3, 2007
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MJ please read the thread i posted for you.

thank you for replying mamac. if you see MJ please direct her to her thread.

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