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February 3, 2005
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Kentuckygirl24
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My birthday = no emails, no phone calls, no nothing from him. This is hard. I can not stop beating myself up over this. I am feeling very down, and it is getting worse everyday. What should I do?

February 3, 2005
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Happy Birthday!

I was where you are not too long ago. Except, 2/3 through the day I got the phone call, it went something like this:

EX> Hey, what's up. It's an important day somewhere around here? Shouldn't I be remebering soemthing right around this time? Your birthday, maybe? Did I miss it? Oh, good. I thought maybe I was off by a day? What are you doing? Oh. Well, we should get lunch. How about I call you in an hour when I'm doen with some stuff and we'll meet up?

An hour later...

EX> Hey. I forgot I had to be somewhere this afternoon. I can't make it for lunch after all, sorry. Maybe we can do dinner? Oh, yeah, you already have plans. Well, maybe another night.

WHAT AN ASS! NOTHING HE COULDN'T HAVE PUT OFF. PRIORITY...SUCH A DISSAPPOINTING WORD.

February 3, 2005
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Happy Birthday!

I was where you are not too long ago. Except, 2/3 through the day I got the phone call, it went something like this:

EX> Hey, what's up. It's an important day somewhere around here? Shouldn't I be remebering soemthing right around this time? Your birthday, maybe? Did I miss it? Oh, good. I thought maybe I was off by a day? What are you doing? Oh. Well, we should get lunch. How about I call you in an hour when I'm doen with some stuff and we'll meet up?

An hour later...

EX> Hey. I forgot I had to be somewhere this afternoon. I can't make it for lunch after all, sorry. Maybe we can do dinner? Oh, yeah, you already have plans. Well, maybe another night.

WHAT AN ASS! NOTHING HE COULDN'T HAVE PUT OFF. PRIORITY...SUCH A DISSAPPOINTING WORD.

February 3, 2005
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That was weird. Sorry about the repaet message.

Have fun tonight...that's what you should do. It's probably better if you don't get the call. It would just give you something to think about other than you... and its YOUR day. It's all about you and you should enjoy that.

February 3, 2005
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Thanks tabbie. I'm just going through a hard time. I just want to sleep and not wake up.

February 3, 2005
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Well happy birthday to you and so forth, don't go to sleep I know that feeling, you feel like you won't have fun if you go out without him, WHY let him control your b-day and your fun? Is he worth that much fun? I think you should seriously go out and have some fun then you can mope tomorrow when you have your hangover : ) .

February 3, 2005
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Happy B.D. Miss Kentucky!

If you'd never been born,
then what would you be.
You might be a fish
or a toda or a tree.
You might be a doorknob
or three baked potatoes.
Worse than all that,
you might be a wasn't.
A wasn't just isn't.
He isn't just present.
But you - you are you.
Now, isn't that pleasant?
Today you are you,
and it's truer than true
That there's no one alive
who is you-er than you.
Shout loud, "I'm lucky
to be what I am!
Thank goodness I'm not
just a clam or a ham,
Or a dusty old jar
of gooseberry jam.
I am what I am, and
it's a great thing to be.
If i say so myself,
happy birthday to me!"

Good on you kid. I wish I was there to take you for a big huge fat piece of cheesecake!

February 3, 2005
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I love cheesecake. I just feel worthless, scared, alone, empty, and cold. I just want this to pass.

February 3, 2005
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Go hang out with your friends and family, they will help you more than you could ever know right now. Trust me.

February 3, 2005
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Why are you beating yourself up? Don't blame yourself if he didn't call.

February 3, 2005
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I just said those very words to a good friend of mine about feeling worthless. We have to work on that. I started a thread on self-esteem. Let's see if someone will answer and help us get some of that. That is what we need, you know. Do you have any friends to go out with even for a coffee on your B.D.? How about family? Find someone to have a coffee with and talk. I'm here to talk to for most of the day anyway. I care about you.

February 3, 2005
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Thanks ms. Kathy, I don't know why I am beating myself up, I guess if I did, then I would not be here. Why are you?

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