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Im a little drunk
August 23, 2006
6:15 am
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So I went out with some friends, had some drinks, ok, alot ofdrinks, Im a little drunk, went and played some cards at a casino, lost some money. Thats okay. Came really close to calling the ex and giving her a piece of my mind. I payed her some money I owed her todat, actually gave it to her sister. She didnteven call me to thank me. What a witch. Sorry if Im ranting, ur the only support I have. I cant wait to go to counceling on thursday. maybe she'll make this anger go away. Fuck I hat her, why cabt she at least thank me for giving her her fuckig money back. Sorry if there are miss spells like I said, Im a litle drunk, and embarrased. Sorry for the rant, Im sure ill read this in the morning and say, what were yo thinking?!

August 23, 2006
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Hey, its okay Santino. Its better she just doesnt call you though. Let it be. No contact is better for ya. I hope you'll fell better when you wake up and have a better day.

August 23, 2006
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Hope you're feeling better, Santino.

One thing I've learned the hard way...

Never drink and dial! You won't be sorry in the morning.

(((Santino)))

August 23, 2006
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aaaaaaaaaahhh the drinking and "wanting" to call her....glad that you didn't, and be glad she didn't call you back, cuz then you would have heard her voice, and maybe in the back of your mind, possibly try to rekindle something that is not there.

Hope you are not having any hangovers today!!! and glad you did the no contact thing!!

(((camer))))

August 23, 2006
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I have found that each time I resisted the urge to call I gain some strength not to call the next time that urge comes on. But add alcohol and the fight is made so much harder.

August 23, 2006
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thanx, i didn't call, thank goodness, funny thing is i didnt even know i made this thread last night. lol

August 23, 2006
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Umm, I hope the urge to go to sleep superceded the urge to call, Santino.

My girlfriend back in college hooked up briefly with an out-of-state, VERY alcoholic bf. She quickly lost interest, but for some time after, every time he drank he would call her long distance....and sometimes he'd fall asleep on the phone and it would still be connected (incredible phone bills). Insane habit.

Anyway, now with your dignity intact, good luck with your up-coming session.

And you know, it IS great (!) that you paid back a debt you owed to her and weren't a jerk and blew her off. Maybe when she gets "over" HER FEELINGS you may get a chance to hear her appreciate that you were honorable with her. But right now all the feelings you both have are pretty raw and highly charged.

When a drunken ex-lover calls, she can draw the conclusion that you still love her and cannot let go, which can be misinterpreted a lot of ways -- feeds her ego, repulses her because of the clinginess -- and if your purpose is to let her know you still care, you really don't want to come across ANY other way but impressive. No contact and detachment works wonders for doing a good evaluation of how you really feel. Best wishes.

August 23, 2006
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We crossed posts. Awesome.

August 23, 2006
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thanx Brynnie.

August 23, 2006
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Wow, I just read my thread again, I must have been really pissed last night to say I #ucking hate her, sorry for the language all, not in my nature to get drunk, I'm just glad I didn't call or text, god only knows what I would have said! Whew!

August 25, 2006
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santino,

It seemed to bother you that she didn't thank you for paying her what you owed her. Does that still bother you? For what it's worth I'll tell you "good job squaring up G, I'm sure it hurt a little to lose the $, but even if she doesnt thank you, you did the right thing."

peace bud

August 25, 2006
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Santino:

I'm glad you didn't call and I'm glad she didn't call. NO contact is the only way you will move on at this point.

As for the drunk... Remember... Take 2 Xtra Strength Aspirin before getting drunk. It'll alleviate any hangover on most. But, must be asprin, not tylenol, not alleve, not ibuprofin, not even excedrin, ONLY asprin.

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