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ilsils in soooo much pain!
February 8, 2005
2:43 pm
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wow-ouch!
im hurting so bad today. the stbxh called last night JUST TO ASK FOR $!! hardly asked about his daughter, he wants half of my taxes or he said he will never give me support for our daughter. what a jerk! and he will do something really bad that he could turn me in for (lets just say i made a mistake, nothing big it would just cost me some money)i really dont want to go into it, he could basicle black mail me. and he will if i dont split the money from my return with him. he hasnt givin me any money for aour daughter, he has the title for a 3,000 motorcycle, and he "claims" i will never see a dime from him for her unless i do this. i want to PUKE!!! this man who called himself my husband for three years dosnt give a damn about me. he called it quits and tned me out like i was nothing but a paycheck. i want to scream. im so lost today, i want to end it all. my daughter is going to be drug through the mud. i feel it now. his stupid family and him are going to make my life and hers a living hell. i go to talk to a lawyer tomorrow. i hate him. oh and for all others familiar w/ me, guess what he is going to go ride his motorcycle this weekend! i guess two legs and 100k in medicle bills in one year just dosnt knock any sence into ya!

February 8, 2005
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this is suck bs! ok he was a horibble person as a husband but GOD what a jerk! i cant believe he is threatening never seeing or helping out his daughter unlesss im complient!i hate him! god i have to spend the next 18 years doing this??? i dont want to see the sun rise tomorrow!

February 8, 2005
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ouch ouch ouch ouch. gone three years he never gave a damn. gone two years he never gave a damn about her. gone!

February 8, 2005
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where is everyone today?

February 8, 2005
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ILS:

Vent away honey!

When you see your lawyer tomorrow you tell your lawyer EVERYTHING including about the blackmail thing he's trying to do. You be 100% honest w/ your lawyer at all times.

Also, tell him he says he won't pay any child support. I know the court will award c/s to you for your little girl. Then if he doesn't pay; he goes to jail. That's in MO anyway. Each state is a bit different, but most have cracked down on non payment of child support.

At this point, you do not have to talk to him about anything except his child. You do not have to listen to his threats; you do not have to give him 1/2 your tax return unless he's gonna give you 1/2 also. I do think, but I don't know him, that he is just blowin hot air to hurt you and scare you as much as he can. I don't know the whole situation.

You stand your ground. You log, write down, every threat, every time he's there, every time he calls and what he says, if he sees his child, if he gives you money, etc. EVERYTHING! And then you be Mother Theresa until the divorce is final. Do no give him any room to come back on you.

What a JERK!

Keep venting; it helps.

February 8, 2005
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i haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatttttttttttteeeeeeeeeee him! i hate him i hate him i hate him

February 8, 2005
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i feel so much dispare

February 8, 2005
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ILS,

What good does this do?

Do you have a plan of action?

February 8, 2005
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Maybe this isn't the best advice or idea but this is what I would do.. I would agree to give him half. Then get your taxes done and when it comes time to get your refund say that you messed up on your taxes this year and claimed too much so you had to pay in this year. Or you had an outstanding bill you didn't know about and they garnished your tax money. I know honesty is the best policy and all that but this guy is playing dirty.

February 8, 2005
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unfortunently he is an ideiot but he would see right through that one. he knows i wouldnt have to pay. he knows he is going to get half. i told him fine id give him 1k. im so done. he can have whatever, whats one more peice of me. im allready trorn to shreads.

February 8, 2005
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ILS,

DO NOT give him that money when it comes in. Make him wait for the Divorce Decree to be issued and then when it says you must pay it then you must. I would suggest you take 1/2 of his motorcycle, etc. too.

Ask you lawyer about all that tomorrow.

Try to be calm for now and play and enjoy spending time w/ your daughter.

February 8, 2005
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ILs.... I can fel your angst, and pain thru my monitor!!! Like the others stated ,DO not let him blackmail you!! Be well rested, and TRY to be calm at your lawyer tomorrow, and Do not withhold info.. lay it all on the line. You need to protect yourself, and your daughter.
My father LOST any parental rights to see me, and yes, I deserved a dad, but He was not the dad for me, or the one I deserved... IF this man is at least a good father, well thats another story.. Please try to be strong, be organized for your lawyer visit, and bring all the paperwork etc. that yopu will need. Start tape recording phone calls,and printinf out emails if you jave to.. keep your gurad up, although I am aware of how hard this is, when it is all so exhausting, but you can do it, and please keep on venting, Our thoughts are with you here!!

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