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ilsils dazed and confused
February 23, 2005
4:14 pm
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so after the big reveal yesterday im kindof left just lost and wondering. it wasnt as bad as i had thought but still its discusting. he told me that his friend and him got real messed up on drugs and his friend got a hooker and she gave him a blow job and then wanted to give my husband one and he started to let her but when it actually started happeneing he couldnt go through with it and ran out the door, i still dont know if it is true, my husband hasnt allwayse been truthfull with me, but cheating isnt in his caracture, he dosnt even like going to strip clubs, but still im left just spinning, i know his reasons for telling me were simply so he could clear his own consience, but what does that leave me with? im so hurt, i dont know what to do. he wants to just discount it as it was something that happened and he has now found god and that he is different so i should just let it go/???
ouch...i could just die

February 23, 2005
4:18 pm
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maybe getting messed up on the drugs made him "almost" do the sexual deed...but that is not an excuse, maybe he should look at why he is doing the drugs in the first place.

(((hugs to you for being so strong thruout all of this)))

February 23, 2005
4:43 pm
addicts wife
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Goodness ,that was a rough "confessional" t ogo through,I d be puking my face off...
I dont think drug use is an excuse, but people do the strangest things when they are are drugs.
Is he in NA?? Or does your church do "confession" like the catholic church does??/
What does he expect you to do now??/
Im so possitive Id be beyond beside myslef. It's like when My husband took off to smoke Crack Imanaged to stay, but it felt like he cheated on me, and broke vows, and promises, So If he were to be with another woman On drugs or not, I wouldnt be handling it at all well.Not tht Id have a place to move to, id have to crawl back to my moms couch, but it would be beter than staying in a home that was so violated, I suppose. at least i trust my mom, andshe wouldnt betray me .....
Sorry im on a tangent... Ireally just want you to know How I am thinking about you, and so sorry for your struggles right now, and that you are loved, and cared about. I wish I had the solution(s) for ya', but I just dont , aside from listening, and sending my support, andconcern for your well being....
I still wanna kick him in the shins, but well ,that wouldnt do anyone any good, really....
Please know Im sending my Prayers right on up for you!!!
((((((((( BIG BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))

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