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if you and your loved one have ever broken up and gotten back together and are happy now. what was it for and how did you fix it?
July 5, 2012
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abalzer91
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I had gotten really drunk and hit my boyfriend so he left me and I got arrested. He's tried to contact me but I can't talk to him until this weekend.
I really feel in my heart that we're meant to be. We broke up one time before and got back together.
I really believe that true love will always come back.

So I wanna hear your stories about something that broke you up and how you got back together and are really doing good now.

July 6, 2012
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When violence is part of the fight, you might be able to reconcile for a while, but its very scary to think that you may resort to physically hurting each other again or worse. I am sure that in the animal kingdom this happens for territorial reasons and for sheer survival, but its not something I feel we should be proud of when it transpires in humans. As I posted for someone else, I will say once more, no matter what the cause of the argument, you need to come to terms with the aggression and try and understand for yourself why it became so escalated. If you learn to understand these cues from within that provoke your rage and subsequent physical attack, you might be able to control it. You should do this with the help of a therapist. From the standpoint of your victim, telling him or her that you are sorry is important, but they may be the kind of person that has zero tolerance for physical violence and decide that they do not want to be part of your life anymore. It is a consequence you must deal with.

September 24, 2012
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The important thing is that you both learned your lessons. Despite how cruel your past was, everything can be settled and reconciled as long you're willing to do it. Best things happen the least we expect it and if there's a will, there will always be a WAY. Just keep moving and be contented with you have right now cause today is a gift that is why it's called present.

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