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I was sexuall abused by my Mom is there anyone else like me ou there?
February 1, 2000
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Hi I guess I was supposed to explain more Iam 26 years old and was abused by My mom until I was 13. Pysically , emotionally and sexually. Iwas horrible but the worst thing right now is how alon I feel.
Like there is no one else who has been through this. All the books talk about is men abusing people but not women ...so if there is anyone out there with a similar tale or resource info I would appreciate it..

February 1, 2000
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Hello Hippy,

I read you thread and wanted you to know that I'm interested in your story. I wish I had words of wisdom or of comfort for you, but I have no experience in this matter.

I also wanted you to know that there was someone out there reading what you had to say...I know it can be nerve wracking(spelling?) waiting for someone to respond.

I wish you well.

February 2, 2000
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Hello Hippy - I too was sexually, emotionally and physically abused by my Mother when I was a very young child. My Mother left me when I was six years old and then came into my life again when I was 15 and the abuse started up again. Eventually I got so ill that I had to talk to someone. I went into family therapy for a few years and that helped me and my Mother, but it has not been easy she still blames me for what happened to me. Seek out some help and let me know how you get on. There are people who understand. Take care.

February 4, 2000
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I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL
i was abused by both parents (but luckily) my father left when I was 11
and my mother only continued phisical
and mental abuse untill I could fight back and then she sent me to a work
farm for uncontrollable kids.So don't
worry you are not alone.

EJOB

February 4, 2000
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Thank you for being so supportive I felt so alone there are no books or support for people who are abused by women....your words made me realize I am not so alone
thank you
hippy

February 21, 2000
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I haven't been around for a while, sorry i am so late to respond..
i was physically, mentally and verbally abused by my mother.. but the sexual abouse came from a female neighbor... because of the abuse at home, i was unable to turn to family for help...

I am sorry you are hurting.. and you are right, it is difficult to find information and suport for abuse that doesnt fit the "norm" well as norm as abuse can be... but given the reponse to the thread, there are more of us out there... that is unfortunate.. unfortunate for any survivor of any abuse...

Know i care.. and wish you well...
hsuzie

February 28, 2000
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Dear hippy,
You are not alone. It is the same horrible betrayal of a child's innocence whether the abuser is male or female. The way I dealt with sexual abuse is to learn to deny the power of the abuse to control my life. I don't repress the memories, or act like it did not happen, I cycle through them as they bubble up. Yuck, it happened. It was evil of the abuser to put a child through those painful, shameful experiences, it's over, and I have moved on into a very happy life, unshadowed by the inexplicable actions of people who should have given their lives to protect me from this kind of experience. You will overcome this, and it will be something you just shake your head over when you are 40. You will watch your own children like a hawk, though, and have trouble leaving them alone with anyone!! Never "Grandma", of course, abusers never seem to stop, or accept the truth about what they did. Who knows what happened to them in their own sad childhood? Best of Life to You!

February 28, 2000
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Rather than lood for specifics about "abuse by mother" read all you can about sexual abuse in general.

esp remember that abuse by the people- male or female- that are supposed to be your nurturing caretakers is always devastating.

Also I would really advise professional type couseling...they will (the right one) have the resources to steer you in the right direction for you.

good Luck

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