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I was doing pretty good....then I cracked!!
February 23, 2006
10:00 pm
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I have been on here off and on. Broken up for a year now - hooking up with ex off and on for the past 4 months or so.
3 weeks ago I told him he was selfish for continuing to hook up with me while telling me he still cares for me but has not interest of working things out. He apologized via voicemail and I never returned his call or contacted him in 3 weeks.
Well, this past Monday I run into him and we exchanged small talk and went out seperate ways.
I cracked and text him later that evening that it was good to see him and that I would love it if we could be friends (although I really want him back). Well he writes back that we can but it would be easier if I were less good-looking, we exchange text over the next three hours - some of his saying 'can we be freinds tonight. Me saying I was thinking friends with benefits then him saying I am still very, very attracted to you. he says his libido misses my wonderful figure and his mind misses my personality. Then he asked me to meet him at a bar by my house.I declined and he keeps writing that he wants to see me and that he still wants me. I keep decline so then he shows up at my apt and i let him up but only crack the door. I told him this is not fair the he keeps coming around when he knows how much it hurts me. He says it's not just sex and that he still has feelings but that he doesn't see himself growing old with me.
Well after talking with the door cracked for about 10 min, he realizes he's not coming in and asks for a hug and leaves. Then I cracked again and text him that it was hard for me to let him do and he writes back, then don't. I let him stay over!
I don't get it!!!! I argued with him a lot and got jealous a lot and that is mainly why he left me a year ago.
But if he still has feelings, is attracted to me and misses my personality - why is he so resistant to get back with me???

February 23, 2006
10:02 pm
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oops. I re-read my post and there are several typos but the main one I want to correct is that I said "i wasn't thinking friends with benefits".

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