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I want my life back
August 13, 2005
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I just want my life back! I want to wake up happy! Is it possible after all I have been through with my stb ex I don't want a divorce I want to be happily married and have dinner at night wait for my husband to come home from work and watch a movie with him. I feel so alone right now! I have a house full of great kids and I just miss my husband who is living somewhere else with someone else and doesn't care about me anymore.

August 13, 2005
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I guess no support on this one?

August 13, 2005
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I am here Need......

I'm sorry that you are hurting.

I don't have much advice I guess....but I can offer support....and a ((((hug))))

Love,
Lolli

August 13, 2005
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Hi Needsomepiece,

My heart goes out to you. I can imagine the amount of pain and agony you must have gone thru to go thru such betrayal from your Ex. Frankly, I have never been in situation like that. However, I have lived thru disappointments and betrayals from friends, siblings, parents, strangers...etc.

You best bet is to develop a spiritual life. Try to re-connect with your Higher Power. Start reading good books about this subject.

A good book to start with is "In every pew lives a broken heart" by Ruth Billy Graham. I have not read it yet. But I trust that it is very good book.

Welcome to this site. A good place for healing. Hang in there and keep posting!

~Love, RAS~

August 13, 2005
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I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. I also have been going through this. This is a great time for you to step back and work on finding who you are. Leave him be for now. You have wonderful kids, concentrate on them and yourself. It's a very hard time and I know what it's like to fall apart. Just take it all in baby steps. Show yourself that you can move forward. If you think it would help...go see a Therapist. I can't begin to tell you the wonders it will do for you. You will see things in yourself that you never knew existed.

August 13, 2005
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Need, I know that feeling, for me it isn't wanting my life back so much as wanting the illusion back if that makes sense. I could be so happy when I didn't know what was going on, before I started to question things and such...ignorance truly is bliss, but the truth shall set you free. So they tell me, along with "it's a lot of hard work, some days you're going to feel like hell, and this too shall pass". (((((Needsomepiece))))), I'm sorry for your loss, but try to remind yourself that it wasn't what you thought it was then, or if it was, that is gone but there is SO MUCH MORE for you around the next bend!. Small comfort, I know, but it's true

August 13, 2005
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I too can relate. My divorce is not yet final, although the 90 day waiting period is over and all we need now is the court date. I'm so lonely at night I could scream. You really aren't alone.

August 13, 2005
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Here I sit on a Saturday night knowing the man that I love is with another woman. How does one cope with that? We were married and I thought happy we never had a problem with sex it seemed we loved each other and now he tells me he was never happy. It is all so confusing.

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