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I want 2 re-marry ex-husband
March 17, 2005
5:05 pm
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Its been 24 hours since our divorce and already I am thinking that if he changes I would give him 6 months, then I would consider re-marrying him. I am regreting divorcing him now. I wish I would of just postponed the divorce until I was sure for real. I think I just did it to get back at him for abusing and cheating on me 3 times. Now he has no where to go and I am thinking about keeping him at home

March 17, 2005
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He will work something out. Worry about you and only you right now. going through a divorce is a big deal and you are probably hurting. take care of yourself. you do not deserve to be with someone who will cheat on you and abuse you. please dont let him make you feel guilty for doing what you needed to do in order for you to be happy.

March 17, 2005
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keeping him at home!? Did you just hear what you wrote. He abused you and cheated on you 3 times!!! Kick him out! Asta lavista baby! Put on your "fu*k him dress" and go out and celebrate. You gota think about this diffrently girlfriend. He's gone and you should be glad. Go out and find that man you deserve.

March 17, 2005
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I can certainly agree with big heart and normal go out and enjoy yourself.Think and focus on you.You don't need him.I don't know if you believe in god but he has committed adultery and mistreated you.You need to move on.I am in the process of doing the same thing get a divorce for neglect,abuse and abandonement.I said to myself if he decides to change i would give it a year in a half because i have alot of trust issues.I want to be alone for awhile to sort things out for myself and you need to do the same hurt.Please don't take him back.You are better off without him.

March 17, 2005
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hurt2,

I don't know your background, but try to keep telling yourself what made you finally make the move to divorce him, and what held you back for so long. It sounds like you are feeling sorry for him. For God's sake, he's a grown man. It's about time he learns to be a "grown up" and learns that the way he handles life (and you) is NOT OK!

Don't go back to that care taker role or you will never get what you deserve out of life ... a REAL partner.

((( HUGS)))

Angel4U

March 19, 2005
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A DIVORCE IS NOT EASY I KNOW BUT HE IS A BIG MAN HE CAN TAKE CARE FOR HIMSELF.WILL HE TAKE CARE OF YOU.WHY WOULD HE CHANGE HE CAN SLEEP AROUND DO WHAT HE WANTS CAUSE YOU WILL TAKE HIM BACK EVERYTIME NO GIRL THINK OF YOURSELF A MAN THAT CHEATCH WILL DO IT AGAIN.I HAD A DANCE CLUB FOR A FEW YEARS AND SEE THEM PLENTY.HE AND WIFE OUT FOR A WHILE SHE TAKE HIM BACK AFTER 3MONTH IT ALL STARTED AGAIN.IF YOU WANT HIM BACK LET HIM CRAWL BACK AND LET HIM KNOW THERE IS NO SECOND CHANCE,BUT CAN YOU THRUST HIM AGAIN?

March 19, 2005
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I am not sure about your history of how this lead to your divorce other than you saying he cheated on you. I always told myself (never anyone else)that cheating was one thing that if happened, I would hope we could work it out. But in my case, we have grown so far apart, that it has been a separation (living together and still married), for at least seven long yreas.

Did you two ever have any counseling or have any time to work things out or even talk until you could not talk anymore to work it out before this divorce? Just a couple questions since no one can really tell you what you need to do befere or at this point.

It takes a lot to build a marrigae and even less to let it fall. If you are having second doubts so quickly, have you sought counseling at least for yourself? Counseling is a great help during and even after divorce or any severance of a relationship, whether it be divorce, death or a datig relationship.

I have been going thru a divorce for nearly a year and I too have my doubts. But my doubts have been what ifs and wish it never got to this point, but I have had much time to deal with it and yes, it still hurts. No one goes into a marriage looking forward to divorcig down the future road, or knowing that, one would never marry in the first place. I hope you can work this out with yourself so you can carry forward with your life.

March 19, 2005
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Hurt2.....I know it hurts. I took my ex back after cheating on me and it was the biggest mistake I ever made.

I was lonely and still loved him and wanted him back so I took him back.
Well he cheated on me again and did not cherish me.

The trust never came back and never would have.
Trust me, the pain u are feeling now is A LOT LESS than the pain u will feel taking him back. Mistrust is true mental torture. I got the "crazies" and it's going to take me a long time to get rid of them

Yes put your F*CK him dress on and say THANK GOD he's gone !

I wished I knew about this site a yr ago when I took my ex back

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