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I thought I would be ok....
May 18, 2007
4:37 am
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Well as some of you known before who read my past posting about my x/b/f who owed me money..well I saw him yesterday and he did give me some of the money he owes me...I really did need it, I have been out on sick leave, and did not realize how much I needed it until I saw my last check..anyways, I went to his work to pick up the money, instead of him going to my side of the car to give me the money, he goes to the passenger side like he's going to get in my car!!

It was locked of course...I rolled down the window and he said "Can't I get in the car" and I said no, what for? he said he was just kidding...and laughs..then he starts being "nice" telling me I lost weight, which I have, and tells me I look good blah, blah...he kept just looking at me and I just could not look at him..I asked when he will get paid again and he tells me..so he said he would call me when he gets paid again...I was cool until after I drove away, I just started crying....I thought I was going to be ok, just doing what I needed to do, just like a business transaction...but it HURT me..I just don't know why...but it did..I don't know, was it my fault for just not leaving right away..anybody know what I can do for the next time..?

May 18, 2007
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Can't he just mail you the money or some way that you don't have to see him in person?

May 18, 2007
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I try my best to believe that no matter what my choice was that it was exactly what I was suppose to do and that ALL is "Good," Pain is a good teacher.

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Your feelings are valid and I know it hurts, but all is well...just believe.

May 18, 2007
3:12 pm
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I understand your feelings but I wouldn't care if he stood on the hood of my car as long as he gave me the money that he owed me.

And about those tears, they would be tears of joy that finally he is able to pay me back.

He can tell me all day, how good I look, as long as he is handing me my money. Then once he paid it up, I wouldn't care how I left him standing.

Just be thankful that you don't have to give him any more money after this.
Nappy!

May 22, 2007
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Yes I am glad I got my money....but he still owes me more, and that means I still have to see him...it's just hard and it hurts..but I guess it will just make me stronger as long as I don't give in to him.

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