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I think I'm codependant?
April 27, 2009
3:04 pm
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I'm pretty sure I am codependant but not so sure why. I prefer to avoid relationships now just to not fall into the same trap again. I would rather be single and secure than married and miserable. How does one know what is normal human tendency in a boyfriend and whats the early signs of abuse?

April 27, 2009
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Do research you can google early signs of an abusive relationship and you come up with so many sites and a lot of people here know the early signs. Is there anything in particular that you think may be a red flag or an early warning sign?

April 27, 2009
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Thank you Random for your reply. I didnt think I was codependant and read something that called my personality traits to be co dependant traits and so I started searching for information and it lead me to this blog. I dont have addictions so I didnt think it applied to me but when I read one post that described dangerous men, it sounded like my ex. After my divorce I was open to meeting someone new thinking I was still young enough to move on with my life with a fresh start, but every relationship I get in I see all these things about the guy that freak me out and I start with drawing, making up excuses why I am not available and eventually end it. Now I steer clear of most men and dont return calls after the first date. I cant really pin point what it is that makes me not want to go to the second date other than they are not worth risking it with. Is that normal to feel that way?

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