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I suck!
October 18, 2001
4:59 pm
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I said I was killing the old thread so I am. Besides, I've already broken through that initial barrier. Unfortunately I made a complete ass of myself today. I got to school on time. She wasn't anywhere to be seen for once. After about 20 minutes, she showed up and asked me if I had the study sheet for the quiz done. I said "sure" and handed it over so she could copy it. She did, and we talked a little bit before class. Mainly about how the midterm sucked and about this other guy in our class who is a little strange. During class she sat a few seats away from me. We both slept through the lecture (actually I was writing down a story that's been in my head for a while.) At the end of class we had another quiz. Afterwards, I again picked up my quiz from last week, and also snagged hers from the pile. When she finished her quiz I gave her her paper and she thanked me. We walked out of class together, still joked a little bit about the other guy in the class. We were all smiles and happy. And I couldn't say it. All week I've been saying in my head, "Are you doing anything tomorrow night?" The damn words would not come out of my mouth. I wanted to say it. I think she wanted me to say it. But I caouldn't do it. After a few uncomfortable seconds of just standing there, she said goodbye and walked off. What the hell is wrong with me?!

October 18, 2001
5:20 pm
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You don't suck! How old are you anyways? My guess is - this is totally natural for more guys your age than you realize. Guys are really shy alot of the time. They may mask it with the big macho b.s. - which looks stupid on them and the girls that go for that - you don't want anyways (airheads), but it's just an evolution kind of thing - you'll grow out of it. Everyone is afraid of rejection and guys more than girls in this situation because guys do the asking most of the time. I don't girls would do it so well either - but the heat is on the guys. Not fair, huh?

Just spend more time with her, let things gradually happen, don't smother her, just have good quality time when you do bump into one another and it will just roll out one day.

Maybe make it a fun thing that you'd be doing - not like a serious date thing, not a movie, more of an activity or watching something - so that you say - Hey, wanna go with hang out with me at blah, blah? Should be a blast!

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