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I put him in jail help me to not take him back
July 14, 2007
11:17 pm
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Green sea turtle. That is a very pleasant story. I had a journal that I kept and the guy clearly had no redeeming qualities. I was going to a co-dependent group at the time and got kicked out for missing 2 sessions because I had to go to my kids schools because the school made me go. I live in the desert and saw a tortus in front of my horse corral. I like the little tiny green turtles but I guess the pet shops dont sell them any more. The longer he is in jail the less I think about him. I am doing pretty good considering this happened 9 days ago. I am not even mad any more cause the guy doesnt make any sense. His life was pointless. Kids and I are very calm and relaxed. Thank goodness for this post and the info. It keeps me centered. I hope I can get to an alonon meeting this week.

July 28, 2007
4:42 pm
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HI Destinystar,

When you confirmed your story on your other thread, I went back and decided to pull up your original thread. I thought it would be helpful to you if you re-read all the earlier comments/suggestions/concerns that were made back then.

I see by your recent threads that you are struggling and very much still conflicted over what to do with regards to your husband.

I wrote in my original post to you that I was very disturbed by your thread. I was particularly alarmed at the viciousness that your husband portrayed.

I know it is easy for us to say do this or that from the sidelines. We are not directly connected to you or your husband. We are witnessing the nightmare but you are living it. It is quite a difference.

Regardless, I am still very concerned. Please go back and read everything you have written here. Read the valuable advice that you have received here. Everyone here is in your corner. We are concerned about your safety and the safety of your children. This is much more serious than somebody breaking the "no contact" agreement.

You will be in my thoughts.

Sad

July 28, 2007
5:06 pm
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I am trying to get all the info into my head so I can unlearn the behavior that caused me to pick and choose such a dangerouse person. This site has been a big help and keeps me focused on trying to get away from him. I am doing a warm up to be prepared when he finally gets out of jail. I have printed the responses and have been reviewing them to find the strength that I need to stay away from him. I just got married Oct. 5, 2006. The whole marriage has been a comedy of errors on his part. I am trying my best to sort through all of the horrible events that took place in such a short period of time. That is why I turned to this site. So every time I have a thought I can get assitance with some reality orientation. First I thought well he is upset because he is in a custody battle that was under way when we first got married. Then blamed the confusion on the fact that we got married the problems with his kids. Then I blamed the problems on the fact that his kids moms and the courts took them away. Then I blamed it on moving into a new house. Then I blamed it on me putting my foot down with all the bizarre behavior. Then I left in April. Only to see the worst of him when I returned to move the rest of my things out and turn the house over to renters.

I am not that well aquainted with him and I am still trying to understand it all.

July 28, 2007
5:12 pm
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Sad- read the post. He wrote and stated that he wants to forget the past. And blames that on his morphine and alcohol addiction. Said he was walking around with his head in a cloud.

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