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I NeedHelp
August 28, 2006
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idunno
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I dunno what to door who to turn toanymore. Ihave alienated myself from my family, my boyfriend left me and Ihave nowhere to live. I do drugs to escape my reality and I am also addicted to sex. Iworkout incessently and have a poor self image. I am thinking thoughts that are nothealthy.

I am a Florida resident but hopped on aplane to Mass. after myboyfriend found out I lied about some major issues. I have no money.

please advise

August 28, 2006
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Hmm,

Have you ever seen a psychiatrist or counselor and told them about these behaviors? Sometimes impulsive behaviors can be helped with medication. Sometimes people self medicate with alcohol or street drugs.

Get the real help you deserve. Go see a dr and counselor at a community health center. Stop trying to take things into your own hands. It doesnt work. Trust me.

August 28, 2006
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Hey Idunno,

I am sorry for how things turned out in your life. Life is not fair and bad things happen to good people.

Have your tried to develop your spiritual life? This could be your right chance to discover HP. I would highly recommend you to purchase 2 books for the time being, 'The purpose driven life' by Rick Warren; and 'Codependent no more' by Melody Beattie.

As you can see you don't have to be rich to get help and get better. Coda meetings are all over the place. In addition they are FREE.

Hang in there and keep posting. I promise you things will get better in every step of the way.

(((Hugs & Prayers)))

September 1, 2006
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the previous post are all good advice. What you need to do is work to find out what makes ya happy that isn't external things. It might not sound so obvious but read some of the posts and listen to the general theme. You'll also note the same book recomendations thru out. Pick one up and toss an eyeball on it. But ya gotta take the first step on your own and want to make a lasting change...if not it will keep haunting you. Working on keeping my own in line and being more open with others myself. Tis not always easy but the better I get at it the more enjoyable it is. All the best to ya. Dun ever quit on yourself because you've always got yourself

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