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I need to Vent
November 14, 2001
1:42 pm
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pam g fu
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I need to vent. Why is it that the women are expected to be the housekeeper, work, cook and all the other duties men seem to think that they don’t have to help with. Last night I came home from work to find the apartment a total disaster, it took me 1-1/2 hours to pick up after a grown man and I still didn’t pick up all the clothes that he washed that are all over the living room and when I asked him he said that they were drying. What ever happened to clothes dryers? Then I had to cook, put a load of wash in, because he would never do that and clean up the nasty kitchen, his dishes. What is wrong with us getting a little help here. I was furious then he expects me to be all cheery when he get home, I don’t think so. Are they that stupid? Some days it just really builds up and I blow a gasket. I didn’t sit down until 8:00 p.m. and I got off work at 4:30 and he doesn’t get home from his new business venture til 10:00 and I am suppose to be excited about something that isn’t paying any bills. Whatever.

November 14, 2001
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We're taught it...men were the bread winners only - not too long ago, so the home was the woman's domain and job. We aren't that far away from all that. But, as far as today goes - when two work - it's the way it is because - we allow it. Sure someone can treat you alot of ways - but if you allow it - that's where the problem is. You can't change him - but you can change - you.

November 14, 2001
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When I actually hear a man ask for advice or suggestions on how to balance a career and a home life I think I will fall down and die right there. We are STILL fighting the roles we traditionally had for eons. Have you asked him to help out a little more or let him know how much it irritates you? Ladeska, as always, is right:-) You can only change you - not him.

November 14, 2001
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I don't know what to think about all of this. I guess I'll ask my mom what she thinks about it after she's done with the dishes tonight.

November 14, 2001
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Well I went on strike and didn't cook and bought t.v. dinners and he doesn't seem to mind. But he does his own clothes and sometimes they sit for awhile before he does them. Ladeska you are so right and yes I did make a point to tell him he lives here to and he needs to do more than kick his shoes off and sit on the couch and watch t.v. I am nobody's maid. I even taught my kids to wash their clothes when they were 10 they wear them they can wash them.

Thanks for your input

November 15, 2001
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THANKS I WILL TRY IT

November 15, 2001
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Hey!!!

What is this??

How come we are all living with the same people and I never see any of you girls?

And if all of you are dusting why do I have to dust, vacuum, pick up everyone's dirty socks and underwear etc etc etc and go to work too.

right now my sweetness and light is ticked cuz I got a letter from an ex from 30 yeras ago...

Codependncy sucks...bing a woman sucks and working all the time sucks , being a teacher sucks ..

IT ALL SUCKS EGGS BIG TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you I am done for now.

November 15, 2001
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I AGREE THIS REALLY SUCKS

November 15, 2001
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There are exercises for that ya know..

And they work...

At least they did when I did them...

NOW...

please pass the depends.

November 17, 2001
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No....not those...

get a total gym and do about 700 squats a day.. (after you pee) and a bunch of those other torturous exercises.

THEN you don't pee your pants anymore.

maybe.

Thing is you can't quit or you just start peeing agin

"it's a real pisser"

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