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I need to let go of my husband, how can I do this
August 30, 2007
8:48 pm
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Hum... that is odd... there is a title but no body text...

Is it suposed to be this way or is it a website error?

Well... I don't know your story so I can only guess why you are trying to "Let him go" but there some basics like starting a "montra" in your mind telling yourself that your doing the right thing... your doing what you need to do to be happy and healthy.

You need to make a plan, in writing, on what you need to do to become indipendant again...

Example:
1. Find a (or better) job for financial stability,
2. Seperate all of YOUR finances and belongings from his. (Open up indipendant checking, savings, and credit accounts and remove your name from any of the joint accounts.)
3. Kids? Figure out what to do with them.
4. Start looking for new housing.
5. Start talking to lawyers. (Both for yourself and having a "Consultation" can make it so that he can't hire the lawyers you visit.)

It seems hard but if you just let the situation come at YOU instead of making a plan you will end up getting run over by it.

You need to try and keep your emotions in check enough to remind yourself about what the two of you have done to lead to this decision.

Becoming Healthy and HAPPY is the goal... everything else is just rocks on the road to that destination!

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