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I need to know the symptoms of sexually abused babies?
October 14, 2004
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hello veryconcerned, and welcome!
it depends on their age, but i was molested at age five. i grew to be interested in sex, i was much too young to have any knowledge when i think back on my behaviours. I also started lying at that age. Can you elaborate? I think I can help you.
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October 14, 2004
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It's a little girl 18 months. She smells really weird when I change her diaper and on several occasions I've seen a clear substance leaking from her and today I found a couple of "hairs" on her when i changed her diaper. I am really scared and she cant talk to tell me if somthing is going on

October 14, 2004
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Take the sample of hairs immediatley and take it to the next ER next time!!! As well as the clear fluid
you definately have something to be concerned about
i cannot tell you how urgent this is!!!

October 14, 2004
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Oh My...

Any blood? Even pink?

Sunny...BTW, preserve the hairs. Put them in a baggie right away. Does she cry when you use a baby wipe? Does it look like there is any trauma to the area?

October 14, 2004
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Also who do you suspect? Do you know that person well? The clear fluid, can you tell if its semen?

October 14, 2004
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yes she is pink and red! and i took the hairs but now they are in the trash at the daycare b-c i told the manager of the daycare and she said that all she could do is tell the mom

the daycare is closed now but first thing in the morning i will get them out.

no she does not cry when i wipe her she is very still in a weird way she opens up her legs and lays still which is very strange b-c none of the babies do that. Now im getting scared. I'm been feeling weird about this for a while

October 14, 2004
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the little girls mom works her Dad brings her in every morning. She is home alone with him all the time. I don't know what the clear stuff is? I've never seen semen? I had a weird feeling about the Dad from the first moment i met him

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Yes, you do have something to be concerned about, let the manager know ASAP tomorrow morning. don't let anyone else know, you don't want anyone running scared. good luck!

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I've never inspected her to see if she is bleeding I'm to afraid this is tearing me up! where do i take the hairs

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Does not the manager of the daycare have a responsibility to report any alleged abuse to law enforcement? I know we do at hospitals. I'm asking this of anyone here..This is very disturbing to say the very least.

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Sorry..Alleged or suspected?

October 14, 2004
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I'm on my on here the manager is not taking this seriously!
Where do i need to go and who do i need to contact?

October 14, 2004
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Sunny:

Who does the hospital notify? Do they call police or DSS?

VeryConcerned: Make sure that manager gets in touch with some kind of authority. I would say to do that even if the mother is notified.

I wonder if the local rape crisis center would have advice?

Good job, btw. Too many people look the other way. It is great that you are taking steps to make sure that baby is safe.

October 14, 2004
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suspected

October 14, 2004
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Aside from the hairs, also try to get some of that fluid you have seen.

October 14, 2004
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Fool me: Both....

October 14, 2004
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VeryConcerned, try this:

Do you have a phone book nearby? Look up the Rape Crisis Center and call them. Tell them what you told us and ask them what you are supposed to do. I think you can talk to them anonomously. They should be able to tell you what to do.

October 14, 2004
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Thankyou everyone for your help!!! I was praying God would send me some help and He did just that
God bless

October 14, 2004
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Please let us know what happens.

October 14, 2004
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Yes please do! You are very brave!!!

October 15, 2004
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Seriously, get this child help! At least checked out. Don't worry about anything...The law will protect you...This is your right/responsibility as a citizen to stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves. =) So, don't worry about losing your job or anything like that. *Hugs* ~Amanda~

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Hey VeryConcerned,

How are you?

What happened with that baby?!

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