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I know who I am (I think)
November 10, 2005
3:32 pm
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thumkin
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Everything says you cannot love someone else if you do not love yourself. You have to know who you are.

I know that I am co-dependent. I know that I have problems.

I do love myself. I do know who I am, what I want in life, what I enjoy doing.

I have a hard time forgiving myself for the things I have allowed others to do to me, but I eventually stand up for me and end it.

But in the end I do not want to be alone. I want someone to share my time with, and to love, and to be loved.

So how do I do that when everything says I am too unhealthy to do that?

November 10, 2005
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I don't think it's saying you're too unhealthy to do that. I think it's about recognizing our problem areas and working on them -- so that we can handle people, situations and life in general in a healthy way. YOU are not unhealthy or unfit to love and be loved -- but perhaps your responses to certain situations could be polished and worked on in ways that heed more positive results.

See what we mean?

November 11, 2005
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Thum...I know EXACTLY what you mean. Right now, I'm having trouble with the loving myself part, but I do not hate myself. I just hate my life right now. It is really sucky.

I feel your pain, most definitely.

November 11, 2005
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Things will get better:)

November 11, 2005
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hey thumbkin
an idea might be to hang out with the person you really thought was shallow n not your type coz you never know will happen till you try but value yourself and try to alwayz be around others to keep you occupied n also to learn from them

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