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I kept my cool....and feeling pretty good.
May 26, 2005
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He broke up with last Sat. because I wouldn't stand by and take his verbal abuse. After 5 days of no contact he called.

I expected it would come and I wasn't sure how I'd handle it when it did.

I have to admit, my heart was in my throat until I realized he was only calling to manipulate.....to test the waters, if you will.

It was short. I was calm and matter of fact.
I think he found the waters quite cool.

Let the games begin....

Thank God I'm going away for the weekend!

Any support (i.e. validation) would be appreciated.

Thanks

Lolli

May 26, 2005
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I am so glad it went well hun and congradulations for not letting him manupilate you anymore that takes curage

May 26, 2005
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lolli, good for you girl!!! see you have plans this weekend!! and yes, there is more to life than him and his verbal abuse. You have youself a good weekend, enjoy the weather, and don't put up with any of his crap!

May 26, 2005
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Lolli
You are my inspiration! Thanks for the words, they are music to my ears, and I know if you did it, I too can do it. It's been a truly incredible day, put in my flower beds and tended to my own soul. Great meeting last night, and I really needed it after reading about the Charmer/Abuser. It shook me to my core. Hang in and have a wonderful weekend!

Starshine

((((Hugs to You Baby!))))

May 26, 2005
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Thank you all so much for your words of encouragement!

I can't tell you how much it is appreciated.

((((Hugs to all of you)))))

Lolli

May 26, 2005
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I'm so proud of you Lolli, dont let him suck you back in girlfriend. OH and btw, this contact doesnt count 😉 YAY Lolli...

May 27, 2005
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Lollipop-

You did AWESOME!!! I know that had to have been very hard... Those types of manipilators really know how to get to us,, especially if you've been with them for awhile.. You did great to not let the waves over flow.. You kept it cool...

Keep strong, DON'T let your second thoughts get to you.. Have fun going away. Live for us all, and let us know how the sailing is???? You deserve a big ((((((HUG))))))

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