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I Hate been alone
October 7, 2004
5:05 am
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Irish_Geraldine
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Hello im from ireland im 42 sepetated 3 years and went straight into another bad relationship its over now i met a new man he seems better to me and my kids, but i feel so terrifed he will leave me i feel i cant cope alone i get panic attacks ive no real friends, and im lonely i use to be married to a abusive man for 19 years but i realise i was so dependent on him , can any one help

October 7, 2004
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Hi Geraldine.

Before you jump into another bad relationship maybe you could take time to learn who Geraldine is. Spend time with your kids. Make some friends on your own. Work on the panic attacks.

Get the book "Codependent No More" by Malody Beattie and go thru it. Learn about codependency. You need time to heal and change or you will just jump from one bad relationship to another to another to another. I'm sorry to say, but that's how it is. Until you can get yourself well, you can't have a healthy relationship w/ anyone.

That's not saying you have to be alone forever. Just give yourself some time to figure out who YOU are and what YOU want first.

October 7, 2004
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i agree with mama, try to spend time alone, it really is not bad, you need to love you first b4 you can love another man...and try not to keep jumping from one bad relation to another...read books, spend time with your children, and I am sure you
can make new friends.....I wish you the best....and remember, you are never "alone" here, you have lotsa friends and lotsa support!!!!

(((((hugs))))) camer

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