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I got drunk tonight and my bf got pissed (balance)
December 19, 2004
11:44 pm
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so tonight I got a little drunk and my new guy got all on my case about it, said it wasn't fair I was drunk, what was I planning with him by being drunk and...

I admit, I drank too much, I feel like he was looking for a reason or excuse while it was still happening, I told him I felt he was shoving my face in shit like a puppy who pooped on the rug.

He was late to the family holiday party and I gave him a little shit for it when he got there. He proceeded to say he never committted to coming. I was kind of busting his chops by being late I guess and seeing if he cared, he got all defensive about it tonight and I got all emotional and drunk tonight, I don't have an excuse, I just did. I hate that he rubbed my nose in it while it was happening and I cried my eyes out.

December 20, 2004
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balance, who cares if you got drunk..you were at home...trust me i have done this b4 for whatever reason....you didn't do anything to him by being drunk...tell him to back off and let you do what you need to do, he is not your "caretaker"!

December 20, 2004
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Amen to that!!

You need to get this boiled down to what are the real reasons for your (both of you) problems.

Besides, it's the holidays, we all are so much more emotional! šŸ™

December 20, 2004
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Amen to that!!

You need to get this boiled down to what are the real reasons for your (both of you) problems.

Besides, it's the holidays, we all are so much more emotional! šŸ™

December 20, 2004
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Thanks Camer and workinonit,

I was not at home though, we were at a Christmas party at my Aunt and Uncle's house and he showed up a little late. I busted his chops a bit for being late and he said he never committed to coming. I got kind of upset at that. And then later he drove me to my place and I was drunk and as he said not acting like myself, acting really strange.

We kind of argued in the car and I told him I didn't like that he said he never committed to coming, he yelled at me to shut up! I was surprised by this... and he asked me why did I do this and why did I invite him to the party. Then he proceeded to tell me what I was going to do and that I was getting silent and he hates when I do that, he made it sound like I had done this before or something. I told him that he had no idea what I was going to do once I got out of the car.

I called him accidentally later, meant to call my cell phone, he called me back and he didn't like the way I said I was sorry and why did I get so drunk...

Anyway, I told him I didn't know why I got so drunk and I didn't know why I was crying and I felt he was treating me like a puppy who pooped on the rug and rubbed my nose in it.

I haven't heard from him at all today. I was sick all morning. I understand that maybe he felt like I didn't pay enough attention to him or let myself go and got drunk. Anyways, any other thoughts on this??

December 20, 2004
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balance, what is done is done....maybe you did have a few too many, maybe cuz you were mad that he didn't show up??? not sure...but for him to tell you shut up!!!1 oooooh not good on his part. You know, we all do things in life, sometimes we regret them, so what if you drank too much, the man I am dating now, I drank alot one nite and fell asleep on my couch while he was talking to me!!! he still called me the next day!! seems like there is more to this issue, and that HE sounds like a control freak, is this guy a new guy that you are dating???

December 20, 2004
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hi camer, yes he is a new guy that I have been seeing on and off due to me trying to heal. We stopped "seeing" each other and just hung out like friends for a while, but we always wind up after a few days kissing again.

I met him last semester at school when I was still engaged. We didn't talk then at all really, I had so much on my mind about not wanting to get married and trying to figure out what to do. We started off very slow and I have communicated the whole way how I was feeling. It is his choice to be there with me or not too.

I feel kind of bad, I didn't call him at all today. He probably feels like I invited him to a party, got drunk and there were some older men there kind of flirting with me. My new guy is 9 years younger than me.

December 20, 2004
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It sounds to me like he just plain didn't like the way you were acting while drunk and wanted you to know. I know that it came across that he was being very persistent in being upset with you but could it also have been because you were drunk so you took it differently then you might have sober? I know I am super emotional when I am drunk and if someone says something to me wrong, I will just fly off the handle but sober I probably wouldn't take it so hard. I would call him and see where he is at, and ask him what you did that upset him so much. Drinking a little too much isn't a crisis and I don't think warrants a harsh criticism but maybe the way you acted while drunk upset him, who knows what you said, things come out of my mouth left and right and then I regret all of it the next morning.

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