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I get Blammed for Everything!!!!
January 4, 2006
2:41 pm
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Krent13
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I am a senior in high school and it's coming close to graduation. Ever since i was a little girl my mom gave me the hardest time. I get blammed for all her mistakes and the rest of my families. I even get hit!! I dont tell any one except for my close friend/ boyfriend. He's sick of it to. It's almost like she's jelious of me or something. Music is my life i was to exceed. I've been playing for 13 years i love it i write my own songs and sing. I never get credit. Help me out i wanna leave...

January 4, 2006
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Can you go away to school and pursue an education centered around music?

January 4, 2006
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music can be comfort for us when our life is difficult, i'm glad u hav found music, have you confronted you mum with how u feel?

January 4, 2006
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One of the biggest problems with being a strong person is having weak people put all of their rubbish onto you because they can't deal with it.
I think gayle has a great idea with moving away for your music. I got stuck with a mother like yours, and then a string of boyfriends just like her. I eventually became a single mother and I'm still living with her at 26. I have 2 years until I finish my Uni degree and then I can take my son away from her and what she is doing to him as well.
Be strong now before you fulfill what she is subconsiously putting onto you.
She won't want you to leave because it will make her face her problems, but for you it is essential that you do.
Stay strong, leave. There is a way out.
Ps. Get a supportive, loving boyfriend.

January 5, 2006
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You need to get out of this situation. Your mother's behavior is wrong on so many levels...and I'm very concernd about the effect it's having on you. The physical scars from her hitting you will heal, but the emotional ones will be harder to heal. I am glad you have a supportive boyfriend. You need to find a source of support through counseling or support groups, maybe at school. I do feel you should continue to pursue your music. Is college an option? If so, I would try to find a college a distance from home so you can be on your own for a while. In the meantime, I think you should focus on finishing high school, taking care of yourself, healing yourself through counseling, and your music. Be well.

January 5, 2006
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I suggest that you talk to a Counselor at school. That way you can tell youre whole story, be questioned for clarification and get instant feedback which should result in the help you need. Unless there are things going on that you are not telling us you probably need to get out of this home situation. Your final year of school is really important to you and your future. Good luck. Regards. Notsure

January 5, 2006
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Just a thought on your title. I used to be some sort of a scapegoat untill I realized my image can needs to be accepeted by me to have any value.
Nothing is good or bad onl men makes it so - shakespeare - not to quote something that belongs on libs. And remembember it s extremely hard to break the pattern, be brave, it can have started with your mother, grandmother or Adam and Eve... Best of luck and joy and health in 2006.

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