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I DON'T KNOW WHATS WRONG
July 12, 2007
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I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME. ONE MINUTE I'M HAPPY THE NEXT I'M MAD AND I TAKE MY ANGER OUT ON MY BOFRIEND. I CANT HELP BUT GO HOME AND NAG AT HIM ABOUT LITTLE THINGS HE HAD NOT DONE OR SOMETHING THAT HE'S DONE WRONG. I TAKEN MEDICINE FOR DEPRESSION BEFORE BUT I WAS A WALKING ZOMBIE. I'VE TRIED PALATES AND EXERCISING. I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO. I'M DISGU

July 12, 2007
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i'M DISGUSTED AND ASHAMED THAT I HAVE BECOME THAT PERSON THAT HE ONCE WAS. I JUST DON'T CARE AND I FEEL LIKE IM PUSHING HIM AWAY ONE MINUTE AND THEN THE NEXT I WANT HIM COME BACK. DO YALL THINK IM CRAZY?

July 12, 2007
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1. Does your boyfriend work?

2. Does he support you and your daughter financially?

3. Why didn't you ever marry?

4. Why did you have a child without being married?

5. Does your boyfriend pick up after himself and share in the household chores and child-rearing duties?

You don't sound "mean" to me. You sound tired, overwhelmed, depressed and discouraged. And that's understandable, given the circumstances. Please fill us in on as much as you can.

- Ma Strong

July 12, 2007
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WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH ALOT. BUT I FEEL GUILTY FOR NOT TAKING HIM BACK WHEN HE CRIES. YES HE DOES WORK BUT HE WORKS FAR AWAY AND DOESN'T MAKE ENOUGH TO SUPPORT US. HE IS NOT VERY RESPONSIBLE WITH HIS MONEY HE ALWAYS WANTS TO GO OUT OR COME HOME WITH A NEW VEHICLE THAT WE CAN'T AFFORD. I TOOK $200.00 OUT OF MY OUR DAUGHTERS SAVINGS AND PUT IT IN HIS CHECKING ACCOUNT BECAUSE HE TOOK ME TO GET SOME CLOTHES, BUT REASURED ME THAT WE WOULD HAVE ENOUGH MONEY, COME TO FIND OUT HIS ACCOUNT CAME UP -$64.00 AND HE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT HE HAD SPENT IT ON. WE DID NOT GET MARRIED BECAUSE HE WOULD NOT SAVE UP HIS MONEY AND I HAVE NOT FULLY BEEN TRUST HIM BECAUSE HE HAS LIED TOO MANY TIMES. HE HAS BEEN BETTER WITH DOING THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE BUT HE STILL TENDS TO THINK OUR CHILD CAN WATCH HERSELF WHILE HE MOES THE LAWN. STILL HAVE TO ASK HIM TO DO THINGS FOR ME AND IT GETS VERY FRUSTRATING WHEN IM WORKING AND TAKING CARE OF OUR KID. HE DOESNT HAVE VERY MUCH COMMON SENSE WHEN IT COMES TO HER AND IM SCARED TO LEAVE HER WITH HIM SOMETIMES. I DONT KNOW WHY I LOVE HIM

July 12, 2007
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HE IS TRYING TO GET HELP FOR LYING AND HIS OBSESSION WITH PORN. NUT ITS SO HARD TO NOT THINK ABOUT THINGS THAT HE HAS TOLD IN THE PAST AND THEY HAVE BEEN NOTHING BUT LIES. NOW THAT HE CAME BACK IN MAY HE HAS BEEN CONTROLING BUT DOESNT THINK THAT HE HAS BEEN. I CANT TALK TO MY FRIENDS WITH OUT HIM ASKING WHAT I 'VE BEEN TALKING TO THEM ABOUT. I CANT VISIT THEM WITHOUT GETTING A GUILT TRIP PUT ON ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT MY HEART WANTS ANYMORE. IM SO CONFUSED AND SAD.

July 12, 2007
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July 12, 2007
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Why did you take him back after all what he has done to you?
I understand that you love him but sometimes love is not enough.

What do you want?
Nappy!

July 12, 2007
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I'M SCARED OF BEING LONELY. WHAT IF HE DOES CHANGE, AND I DONT GIVE HIM A CHANCE. THEN HE'LL FIND SOMEBODY ELSE AND THEY WILL BE HAPPY. I'M NOT SURE WHAT IS BEST FOR ME AND MY CHILD ANYMORE. I DON'T WANT HER GROWING UP WITHOUT HER FATHER THERE. BUT I DONT WNT TO FIGHT IN FRONT OF HER EITHER. WHAT IF SHE BLAMES ME FOR MAKING HER DAD LEAVE? DO YOU THINK ITS SELFISH OF ME TO MAKE HIM LEAVE? I KNOW LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH, I JUST FEEL LIKE I CANT LEAVE HIM HANGING.

July 12, 2007
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If a man cannot be trusted because he lies and prefers porn to intimacy with you (a real, live woman), then he has serious issues. Are you hoping that he will miraculously change? He won't. People are what they are.

If you cannot trust him now, this is a dead-end relationship and I would recommend you getting out of it. Intimacy is impossible when you cannot trust your partner.

I know this is probably not what you want to hear, but it sounds like it is becoming a very depressing, destructive relationship and that you would be better off out of it. File for child support and cut your losses.

July 12, 2007
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I HAVE MY ANGER ISSUES ALSO. I GET ANGRY EASY AND STAY IN A BAD MOOD. BUT WHEN WE WERE SPLIT UP, IT WASN'T THAT BAD. IT WAS HARD FOR THE FIRST FEW WEEKS BUT THEN FELT A LITTLE BETTER, LIKE I DIDN'T HAVE TO ANSWER TO ANYBODY, OR WORRY ABOUT FIGHTING OVER SOMETHING STUPID. DOES THAT MEAN IM NOT GONNA CHANGE ALSO? I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO LEARN BETTER WAYS TO DEAL WITH STRESS.

July 12, 2007
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I know what I need to do to make things better, it's just going through the process that's going to be tough. I don't know if I can handle that. I'm so scared that he will find a damn good lawyer and take my baby away. I couldn't live without her. so sometimes it seems to be easier just to take him back and not worry about that anymore. But I'm miserable and I slowy see him going back to his old ways. The other night we were talking about him needing to put money in to her savings and he acted like he didn't know anything about having to put money back into her account, so I said if you want to fight with me about it forget it and I walk to the bathroom, and right before I closed the door, He called me a c--t. That is was triggered me before and that is when I had enough of his disrespect, I told him to leave and that I did not want to be with him anymore. He got so mad at me and started yelling. I put my hands on his chest to keep him from coming all the way inside, and he pushed me hard. He made me sore. He took a chainsaw to the house and started taking the fridge and the dryer, everything! I know he has a bad temperbut I have never seen it that bad before. I was scared of him and I was scared our child was going to wake up. He just kept calling me a bitch.

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