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I believe Jimmy is a Narcissist!!
February 25, 2004
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onmymind,
well, why are you still living with him? the best is to leave him, he's not worthy - unless you *like* living with narcissict pathological liars.

>> I could just turn my back on him and run, or just be a friend and keep him at a distance from my heart and try to make him a better person.<< i read a non-professional article written why girls like bad guys and one of the reason is they want to change him. look, you cannot change him. what are your plans? are you dependent on him for financial support, grocery and apartment? i'm trying to know why you still live him. Clearly, he's not the same person who you married.. thats what you said too. again, I think the best is to leave him. He said himself he has no feelings for you. he controls you, he's a bad guy. you have to start being independent and not waste time on people like him.

February 25, 2004
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guest_guest,
No, I do not live with him. I am married. Jimmy is just a man I had an affair with that is still in my life(but we no longer have sex). I do not know why I love him like I do, but I am trying to figure out or gain strength to do something about this. I do not depend on him for anything at all...he does nothing for me, has no purpose in my life whatsoever. I just love him.
I guess I made things just more confusing now...sorry. I know it seems obvious...JUST GET AWAY FROM HIM!! But I care for him very much....and I don't want to "abandon" him. But I know I should...which is why I am here and why i am confused.

February 25, 2004
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Annette -

You sound just like me, always worrying about "abandoning" my EX, he has no trouble getting along just fine without me (maybe that is really my issue, not wanting to know that he can live without me? dunno) anyway, I am a little confused - are you pregnant now or were you pregnant before? I mean have you had the baby that you thought MIGHT be Jimmy's?

I don't know what the deal is with why we feel this way about men. I mean maybe it does go back to childhood issues or something like that. I know I have abandonment issues so I project them on others. Maybe you do too?

February 25, 2004
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Marley,
I got pregnant back in July of 2002. My baby will be 1 year old next month.
Jimmy and I stopped having sex in August of 2002, when I told him i was pregnant.

I'm not sure why i have these issues...I've had what i've always thought to be a normal childhood, no abuse or abandonment that I can think of. What would be something I should consider?

February 25, 2004
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Marley...
Please read a few posts back where I asked you some questions about your ex and answer them for me...
Thanks

February 25, 2004
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I did something i am proud of...
I went into a chat room(not to look for jimmy, i was just bored for a min and needed a break). There was an id in a room. The id was his first name initial followed by his last name spelled out completely followed by a zipcode. Not typical of Jimmy's normal id's, he would NEVER use his real name, but yet, my heart started to race. I as mad mostly, thinking that he was at home chatting and lied to me about doing that tile job. Then I wondered why he didn't call me...then I thought, he probaly just told me that lame story about doing a tile job and then going to get his son just so I would think he was busy and wouldn't call him when in actuality, he was with another girl on his day off, probably taking her to the mall or something. So, I pm'd the id...this is the exact conversation:
Annette (2:55:55 PM): who is this?
Jimmy (2:56:27 PM): 1st timer on Yahoo chat
Jimmy (2:56:30 PM): hello
Annette (2:57:02 PM): odd
Jimmy (2:57:25 PM): great pictures
Jimmy (2:57:28 PM): what's odd
Annette (2:57:52 PM): so u just started chatting?
Jimmy (2:58:09 PM): yes
Jimmy (2:58:15 PM): you?
Annette (2:58:25 PM): when did u create this id?
Jimmy (2:58:59 PM): I been using it for about two year for email - why?
Annette (2:59:26 PM): odd that you updated the profile last august.
Annette (3:00:15 PM): is this you?
Annette (3:00:18 PM): be honest
Jimmy (3:00:23 PM): yes
Jimmy (3:00:35 PM): is this you
Annette (3:00:55 PM): this is the jimmy I know, right?
Jimmy (3:01:14 PM): I not sure
Jimmy (3:01:32 PM): did we sleep together
Annette (3:01:34 PM): just be honest, no games, ok?
Jimmy (3:01:54 PM): what the hell are you talking about
Annette (3:02:17 PM): i'll just call you right now and see if this is who I think.
Annette (3:02:37 PM): you know...forget it, you're not worth it....
Annette (3:02:58 PM): if this is JXX...you are nothing but a narcissist...and I want you out of my life forever!
Jimmy (3:03:20 PM): No this is JYX - sorry
Jimmy (3:03:41 PM): I'm Jimmy
Jimmy (3:04:16 PM): you there
Jimmy (3:04:35 PM): HEY
Annette (3:05:31 PM): i don't like even talking to someone with the same name as him...makes me sick.
Annette (3:05:38 PM): his name is jimmy as well
Annette (3:05:47 PM): Jimmy XXXX XXXX
Jimmy (3:05:59 PM): damn he must have been a real dick
Annette (3:06:10 PM): just a narcissist.
Annette (3:06:16 PM): typical NPD
Jimmy (3:06:42 PM): what he do to you
Annette (3:06:58 PM): doesn't matter, he will never use me ever again.
Jimmy (3:07:27 PM): must have fill you head full bullshit to get in your pants
Jimmy (3:10:41 PM): WOW - I just read the links your provided
Annette (3:11:52 PM): good, if you are him....help yourself out and don't ever contact me ever again bc i am not going to be your narcissist supplier.
Jimmy (3:12:49 PM): I'm not him
Jimmy (3:12:56 PM): do you want to chat od not
Annette (3:14:03 PM): Just the slight chance that you could be him or just the fact that your id is his name makes me sick...no offense, but it's best I not chat with you.

If it wasn't him...at least it was good practice...if it was him...I guess he knows how i feel now...right??

February 25, 2004
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Annette

I hope you meant what you said and I think it is VERY good practice. At least now you know if it was him he will leave you alone and you have said your peace. Maybe this can be your closure. I would just assume that it was him and move on.

February 26, 2004
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onmymind, i think you just need to go over to him and give a him a real good kick in the _. That way you might stop to care about him. Its really amazing how you still care about him. I guess i'm done for this topic. thanks, it was a good insight.

February 26, 2004
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Annette -
How are you doing today? I guess I should answer the questions you asked me . . .
1) The ex you are talking about that sets tile is the same one that you are going to pick up at the airport on the 8th, right?

I am supposed to pick him up on the 3rd (next Wed) and yes it is all the same person (believe it or not)

2) Where has he been?

He has been in Costa Rica, two weeks at an enlightenment commune - and two weeks surfing on the coast. He went down there b/c he fell in love with a woman who told him she was going to be a shaman. He sent her 2100 to buy a plane ticket to India and finish her schooling and now she is not going.

3) Does he install tile out of state?

No, only here in Colorado

4)Or is he just coming back to visit you?

He lives here, I just moved back here from Chicago after being gone for 6 months (hence the new girlfriend, blah blah blah)

5)How long has it been since you've seen him?

Um going on four weeks now. I miss his face.

March 1, 2004
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Marley,
Thanks for answering those questions, I know your story more now.
I spoke to Jimmy this morning. He beeped me around 8:50 and we talked for about 30 mins, mostly about how his weekend was. He and his ex-wife took their son to a motorcross on saturday night and then sunday they had his sons 4th birthday party (his sons birthday is wednesday, same day you pick your ex up.
He wanted to know my msn id that I use for msn messenger(we use to use that when he worked at his previous job). I gave it to him....while we were on the phone, he sent me an instant message(just a goofy face). It made me smile. We may have lunch together today. He is off work today. He lives about an hour from where I work though. So for him to actually come have lunch with me means a lot to me. I haven't seen him in about 6 weeks now...I miss his face very much. So I know how you feel. He sent me an instant message a few mins ago asking me what the weather was like outside, he is trying to decide what to wear today...he can be so goofy at times.
I've been reading this book this weekend. It's called "The Five People You Meet In Heaven". It's really a great book, and makes you think about the people who have played major live turning roles in your life. You should read it if you enjoy reading....it's a very short book.
Well, I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much about lunch, but my heart is racing and I wish I would had wore something nicer and did my hair different today...but oh well. I've been on a diet for about a month now...I've only lost about 5 pounds...but that's better than nothing. I still have about 15 more to loose before I will be back to where I was before I had my baby. My baby will be a year old this month.
I guess I'm going to get back to work for a while and try not to think about lunch. It's 10am....I still have two hours. Jimmy usually waits until the last minute to make up his mind about everything, so he could change his mind about lunch, so I try not to get my hopes up too high.
I really miss his face...

March 1, 2004
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it's 10:30...he beeped and I called him back. He's on his way down here to meet me for lunch. He said he wants to get his oil changed in his truck, so he's dropping it off at Wal-mart and I'm going to pick him up from there and then we're gonna get something to eat and then I'll take him to pick his truck back up.
I'm shaking all over and smiling from the inside out....but I'm going to stay calm...or at least try to. My heart is racing.....I get to see him in an hour...I really miss him!!

March 1, 2004
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Annette -

I know how you feel and I hope that things go well for you, I really do. . . but do you ever realize how much we sound like junkies trying to get our fix. I mean really are these guys that great that we get so twitterpatted about them or is it something else that we are lacking and we need in our lives?

Marley

P.S. I want to hear all about it

March 1, 2004
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Marley,
I know...it's got to be the worse type of addiction ever!!
Lunch was great...he bought this time..SHOCKER!! We just ate and talked about work and religion...he does not believe in god at all, I was telling him about that book I read. And we talked about phones, just casual stuff mostly. Anyway, then we went by the nextel store, his speaker isn't working on his phone and he really wants a phone like mine. They wanted twice as much as they do online, so he's just going to go home and order it online.
I had bought his son a bday gift and gave that to him to give to his son. I had also bought him some candy for valentines day and gave that to him also. And I dropped him back off at the walmart to pick his truck up.
Lunch went really well though...just nice and friendly. But I still get chills when I look in his eyes....and I still crave to kiss him. But I am trying my best to just be friends. It feels good in one way...then the side of me that craves him hurts. It's a beautiful day though...and I got to see his beautiful eyes again.
He's on his way home now and he said he would instant message me when he got home...:-)
I'm smiling...but I know it's temporary....I know today he's just off work and he's bored. Tomorrow will be back to normal. I wonder how much longer it will be before I get to see him again....sigh.
Emotional termoil returns....

March 1, 2004
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Annette

You should not want to see him. Be happy that you saw him and you were strong and things went well. There are all those sayings about the more you expect the more room there is to fall.

Odd, that he has beautiful eyes, too - that is my Ex's claim to fame as well. Bright blue blue blue eyes . . .

March 1, 2004
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he's online now...been on for a while now...but hasn't sent me an instant message yet. This is when my mind goes nuts...now i'm wondering what he's doing, if he's chatting with another girl...what is he doing????????? Why isn't he talking to me????
Why am I worried about it?? I sent him a link to a truck we were talking about...he hasn't responded to me at all...and I know he's there, he's not showing idle...I think it's best if I don't see or know when he's online, this drives me nuts!!!
Maybe he's just looking at the phone stuff and ordering him a new phone...he said he was going to do that. I'm not going to call and bother him...that would be so desperate...I mean it's only been an hour since I talked to him...WHAT'S MY FREAKING PROBLEM????????

March 1, 2004
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our chat conversation today....

Annette says:
what cha doin?
Jimmy says:
brb
Jimmy says:
ok nextel is done
Annette says:
get it?
Jimmy says:
yes
Annette says:
woooohoooo
good
when will you get it?
Jimmy says:
1-3 days
brb
Annette says:
k
Jimmy says:
k
Annette says:
k
Annette says:
did jack get one too?
Jimmy says:
he's going to get online and see
Jimmy says:
what he was mostly hoping for is for it to be alot smaller
Jimmy says:
but its really not
Annette says:
nah, not really
Annette says:
just looks cooler...
Annette says:
did you get the phone charger?
Annette says:
it doesn't come with one...
Jimmy says:
it comes with the wall charger
Annette says:
yep
Jimmy says:
i got the car one to come with it as well
Annette says:
oh...ok
Jimmy says:
found out....nextel has a buy-back program
Jimmy says:
i get 75 dollars credit for my phone
Annette says:
wow...so how much did it end up costing?
Jimmy says:
149
Jimmy says:
no mail in rebate
Annette says:
so same difference really...
Jimmy says:
and then when i get it...i can package my old one up and when they get it...i'll get a 75 dollar credit
Annette says:
oh...so it's costing you just 75 total then?
Jimmy says:
yes
Annette says:
wow...nice
Jimmy says:
plus i upgraded my plan
Annette says:
what did you get?
Jimmy says:
600 plus
Annette says:
have you tried the text message yet?
Jimmy says:
no
Annette says:
i'm gonna up grade mine too...
Annette says:
but i don't talk a lot on the phone...so i'm gonna stick to the 250 mins...
Jimmy says:
i downgraded carlos's plan
Annette says:
does he know it?
Jimmy says:
nope
Annette says:
does he even use it?
Jimmy says:
but i checked his minutes
Jimmy says:
the most he has used in a month...was 130
Jimmy says:
moved him to 250
Annette says:
so it's not going to be much more than usually on the bill now
Jimmy says:
hopefully
Annette says:
I'm glad you went ahead and did it...
Jimmy says:
just gonna hate to see that bill

Annette says:
make sure you turn the disco lights on it...it's cool...
Annette says:
it's only gonna be whatever the phone cost
Annette says:
shouldn't be but 150 more
Annette says:
well, guess u gotta total in taxes and crap
Jimmy says:
yep
Annette says:
i'll pay half for you...k?
Jimmy says:
nah
Jimmy says:
i'll be fine
Annette says:
i know you will...but i don't want you to get behind because of that.
Annette says:
let me pay half and u start a savings for that new truck...
Jimmy says:
if its going to hurt...i'll let you know

Annette says:
let's avoid another injury....I'll just go ahead and give you some money...
Jimmy says:
nah...
Jimmy says:
i'm ok
Annette says:
just let me know if you get tight
Jimmy says:
ok
Annette says:
i could do something that would piss u off, but i'm not...
Jimmy says:
good
Annette says:
are you going to go hit some balls?
Jimmy says:
i think so
Annette says:
if i needed your help...would u help me?
Jimmy says:
if i could
Annette says:
ok...i honestly think you would if you could...I just wanted to ask.
Jimmy says:
you have helped me so much...and i greatly appreciate it....so for me to not be willing to help would be pathetic no matter how much you annoy me at times

Annette says:
yeah, i know.
Annette says:
I'm working on that issue.
Annette says:
guess everyone has a reason for living.
Jimmy says:
yawn
Annette says:
it's ok...you can't help it.
Annette says:
I think i've got you figured out though...
Jimmy says:
yea ok
Annette says:
I've been researching stuff and got a lot figured out...
Annette says:
I'm smart, remember...
Jimmy says:
i hear ya
Jimmy says:
do you want to know how much i've spent with nextel since 3-23-2003
Annette says:
hmmmm
Annette says:
let me guess
Jimmy says:
over 4 thousand
Annette says:
geesh man
Annette says:
you talk too much
Jimmy says:
thats three phones but damn
Annette says:
that's a hell of a lot of money!! That's almost that truck down payment...
Jimmy says:
yep
Annette says:
I know one thing i hate about the phone...
Annette says:
well, two things really
Annette says:
one is that the speaker that the DC person's voice comes from is on the back of the phone...
Annette says:
it takes a while to get use to listening to the back of the phone
Jimmy says:
lol
Annette says:
the other is how you have to connect the charger to the phone
Annette says:
it has this rubber thing that you have to bend back
Annette says:
it's annoying as hell
Annette says:
but besides that, i love it...
Jimmy says:
lol
Annette says:
you'll see
Annette says:
my favorite thing is the disco lights when it rings...
Jimmy says:
lol..glad the pretty lights do it for you
Annette says:
hey, give me a break, I don't get much amusement anymore...
Jimmy says:
ok...well...i'm going to go hit some
Annette says:
some what?
Jimmy says:
guess i need to find a range near here
Annette says:
unless you want to go somewhere else
Jimmy says:
lol
Annette says:
what are you doing tonight?
Jimmy says:
nutin
Jimmy says:
folding clothes
Annette says:
sounds domestic
Annette says:
lol
Jimmy says:
it is
Annette says:
guess you don't feel like driving anymore today
Jimmy says:
not this late
Jimmy says:
lol
Annette says:
didn't think so
Jimmy says:
sweet
Jimmy says:
there is a range about two miles from here
Annette says:
nice
Jimmy says:
ok...i'm headed out...beep me if you like
Annette says:
ok....be careful

March 1, 2004
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Annette -
I have had that conversation 1000 times. Please stay away from him. And why did you offer to pay for his bill, I mean come on! Remember last week and the bank and all of that? I mean do you know why he doesn't have money to pay his bills or get a new truck? My guess is that "other things" are often more important. Let him figure out his own priorities.
Don't waste your time with this one, you have a husband and a family.

I caught the pseudo-flirting-sexual innuendo in the conversation. He left it alone and so should you. I mean I don't know what you guys talked about over lunch or how things were b/w you but what I do know is that if they are interested, they don't need the hints, the come after you like bats out of hell (you know what I mean?) So let it go, it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you or that he doesn't find you attractive (blah blah blah) it just means that he needs to be with other people for some silly ego thing and do you really want to spend time with someone like that?

The thing about the golf range - I mean this guy could literally be my EX or at least his brother and I am scared for you b/c you have a family to lose whereas I am only screwing with myself and my own head. Don't make sacrifices for this man, Annette, he is not worth it.

If I were you I would be happy that you had lunch and that things were nice between, but don't try to make it more than it is. The more you give him space the more he has room to grow and in growing maybe he will realize what a wonderful person you have been to him.

March 1, 2004
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Annette,

I have been following this thread for a while, but have not commented on it - still won't really - and not judging you - but warning you.

If your husband has half a brain and a decent divorce attorney - you will not have anything left that you cherish.

Is this man really worth that much to you?

March 1, 2004
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onmymind, I agree with zinnie about the warning. i think your not being fair with your husband. If you like this other man and he's on your mind, well this is wrong, as you'd agree with me here. you're obviously under a crush and like his nice eyes and strong salesmen personality etc, but your hubby would not be pleased to hear about this, if he loves you. you should make a choice, what do you think? i dont know a lot about your life but from what i read, he likes playing with you and you get played easily. anywa.. whatever you do.. have fun 😉 .. what can i say, you're an adult yourself.

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Annettem i might have been too harsh in my last post, sorry for that. anyway, whats your plan now? whats going on.

March 2, 2004
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Annette -

Any news? More calls from Jimmy? What is going on?

March 2, 2004
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Hi all, thanks for your replies. I have not spoke to him at all today. I almost called him this morning, but I made myself not do it. Yesterday was a nice friendly day with him and I enjoyed talking to him...but I knew today would be back to normal. My problem seems to be that I can't get enough of him. I went 6 weeks without seeing him...and yesterday I didn't want to leave him. I guess that is what addictions do to you, they control your mind and your actions. Zinnie, you are right, I know I am risking everything. To be honest, no...it's not worth loosing anything over....I know he doesn't love me. I am not strong enough to just not talk to him. But I am strong enough to not call him whenever I want to (which is usally every 5 mins). If I can control my emotions and feelings for him, maybe he and I could just be friends. It seems like he only acts really mean to me when things start to get serious or I think things are more serious than they are. Does that make sense? I know that I should concentrate on my husband though and make that relationship stronger. But these feelings i have for Jimmy are stronger than any I have ever had for any man ever before. I can't just ignore them. I keep thinking of yesterday and just how nice it was to see him again...just to be casual with him...and joke around about stuff. I know eventually he will meet a girl and then he will not have any use for me anymore and we will probably just fade out. What do you think?

Marley...have you officially decided what to do yet??

March 2, 2004
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Annette -

I am glad that you have not called him and that you are thinking more about your husband and family. Have you ever thought that your main draw to Jimmy is that he isn't gaga over you? I mean - like I watched Average Joe last night (I only ever watched the premiere - so i don't really know what happened), but she chose the guy who she wasn't totally sure of instead of the guy she knew loved her and thought she was amazing and would fight for her and do anything for her. She felt that she would have been cheating him to try to have a relationship with him b/c she couldn't say I love you to him. So instead she wants to be with the hunk who is like, yeah I would like to give it a shot . . .

I don't know what this tells you or if this helps, but watching that last night totally clued me into the little spoken of truth, that some people aren't comfortable enough with themselves to accept love from someone else. Do you think you want to be with Jimmy b/c you know the relationship is hopeless? Like deep deep down you don't want to try to make a relationship succeed and that is why you are distracting yourself away from your husband and your family?

Sometimes it is easier to be solipsistic a loner, like the narcissist, but in the end, don't you want to be part of something even more wonderful?

P.S. I think I will go and get him, I mean what the hell - if I leave work at 4 he will have to wait a bit and I won't screw myself out of any necessary hours, etc.

March 2, 2004
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Marley...
I know what you are saying. I've always wondered if i love him and want him so much because it is a challenge. Then I think back to the beginning of our relationship....when he DID tell me he loved me every day...and when we saw and talked every hour we could...when we went to florida together and we laid in the bed and he looked me in the eyes and said "you know you're the one, don't you"...and i smile and then we just held each other until we fell asleep. Maybe I miss all of that, and I want that feeling back. But I really don't think it's because I can't be with him or will never be with him...honestly feel in my heart I love him.

Oh...and I'm glad you are going to get him. Maybe it's the wrong thing to do...but if your heart feels it...then do it. I really think you would feel worse if you didn't get him. I know I would. Jimmy's always said I had the biggest heart of anyone he's ever known. And I think you know in your heart that if you needed your guy to pick him up, he would. I've always been taught to treat people the way you would want to be treated....why is that so wrong sometimes?

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Thank you for your support on the airport thing, everyone basically thinks I am nuts, but I know I am doing the right thing.

About Jimmy, so maybe it isn't solely because it is a challenge, maybe you do really love him and want those feelings back, but do you think he will ever be that way again? Remember Actual Guy and Pretend Guy? I mean - no offense really - what if that guy was Pretend Guy? I mean according to all the NPD stuff he probably was Pretend Guy and the Jimmy who acts like you don't exist sometimes and can be a real jerk, he is the Actual Guy.

What is your husband like anyway?

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