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I am turning into a green eyed monster!!!!!! I cant stand it!
May 31, 2006
11:45 am
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ConfusedCyn
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Hey FL,

I'm sorry things are still so shaky for you. I know how hard it is to 'hold strong' and stay away when you have really been attached to someone. (In fact, read the post I just finished on Desperate feelings.... heh.)

But if you try to take a step back and look at how last night's calls went, it looks like the pattern totally fits exactly how the whole relationship has been going. Make a list of the calls in the order they happened and how he acted each time. Push you - pull you....same old story... (at least that's how I see it..). You don't deserve to be treated like that. EVER. By phone or in person.

Maybe you can use the board as a deterrent - when you feel like calling him - come here and post. Maybe we can all help each other be strong and make choices that are healthier for us.

I'm struggling big time today...won't go into details..its all in the Desparate thread if you feel like reading it. But I'm with you girl. No matter how bad it gets, I'm learning that we can all count on each other, even if we don't have anyone else.

BIG hugs,

CC

May 31, 2006
1:21 pm
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Taj,
That is so true I do put him on a pedestal. The funny thing is when I first met him I wasn't even attracted to him. He talked too much, he semmed cocky, and we didn't really click. He kind of grew on me... Like fungus! LOL

The million dollar question is why? I know I have a lot going for me, I have a good job, good personality and most of all a good heart so WHY do I think these losers I find are the best thing since sliced bread?!?!?!?

I will have to try the rubber band thing. Its weird because my thoughts of him become so consuming.

I wish I understood what causes all of my dysfunctional behavior.

Your the best, Thanks for talking!

((((TAJ)))))

May 31, 2006
1:41 pm
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CC,
Thanks! I will check out your other thread and write to you.

Hugs

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