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I am trying to lave a bad relationship & we have a kid
October 24, 2008
1:27 am
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I am vary whored about leaving him but I can't and wont forgive him for what he did. Well here gos the story of what happened this time my 4 year old was in there room playing and then thy came out and said she was vary upset and when I asked y I was told the dvd was bad. so I went to the room and was horrified to find that my baby was watching an adult video. I asked ware the dvd was and was told by my 4year old that it was in there closet. I do NOT watch that trash or have it in my house or so I tot. So the only way it got there would be by my boyfriend and father of my kid. This is not the worst of it the vary next day after I flue off the handle and cried and he said that it is his movie I was trying to play with my kid on the computer and on the stuff he set up for us to play on another video came up in front of my kid . I know that it is the right thing to leave but I need HELP!!! can you help me????

October 24, 2008
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is any one going to help? I have never used a chat room or what ever this is so I don't know how long it takes to get someone to talk to me????? 🙁

October 24, 2008
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Hi Footprints,

I can't imagine how hard this is for you to have your child find this stuff. Unless he is addicted to this stuff, I'm not sure if this is a good reason to end this relationship without discussing,it further and getting help individually and as a couple. Are there other things going on? See if he is willing to seek help for it and then make your decision. In the end, only you can decide what is okay with you.

Keep posting

October 24, 2008
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that is just the tip of the ice burg he is selfish and hart less and a bad dad.He is teaching are kid stuff that is bad with his actions and is just bing emotionally abusive to me as well

October 24, 2008
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hi footprints...do you and your child have a place to go??? can you just up and out leave this man?? do what is best for you and your child.....cuz if things are bad now with this man, they will only get worse if nothing changes.

October 24, 2008
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I agree with Camer. Things will only get worse with this man. If you have somewhere to go, I say give yourself and your child this gift. Perhaps you can also start therapy for you and your child as soon as possible. All the best to you!! Keep posting.

ps. post even if noone responds and write what is your heart. That alone makes your heart lighter and clarifies things even further, at least it does for me.

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