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i am so smitten w/this guy. will he call???
January 23, 2005
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well whatever . . . he isn't worth your time, honestly. I mean if he is going to pursue someone who is out of town sounds like he isn't terribly interested in anything serious right now - you know what I mean?

January 23, 2005
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oh i know, i don't think he is, i think he is just playing around. sure made me mad that he would say all that crap to me, i mean we have known each other a long time you would think that would have counted for something. before our friend talked to him his friend was under the impression that he liked me as well, so i don't know, whatever it was it doesn't matter now, he screwed up as far as anything beyond friends and that will take some mending for sure. so your guy is going to go back to his x? how did you find this out? i will be back shortly i have to go pick up my daughter at the movies.

January 23, 2005
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well we see each other three times a week (we are in a club together) and generally will go out after . . . so I guess he is thiking they should be together or something (I didn't really ask). I don't know. We have the best time together and he called me after we parted ways today for a silly reason and then wanted to make sure I was going to go out on monday . . . so I don't know what to think anymore, but hey - there are millions of other guys out there. Plus today my ex called and was really nice. I think I just need to stay distracted so that I don't fall back into his trap. Who knows?

How is the house coming?

January 23, 2005
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house is coming along well, i got the dining room completely painted today and hopefully install carpet in a couple of weeks. it is starting to look so cute. i am having a face lift in march. can you believe it, i am so excited. i am 43 in march, not a whole face lift but a partial. i can't wait. i have to not smoke at least two weeks prior to the surgery so that will be an incintive to quit. well i am going to go to bed, i will talk to you later. good luck with everything. i am just going to work on me and eventually date again and venture back out there, but next time i will be completely prepared and i will not get caught off guard like that. ya know, i really really like this person. darn.. oh well. good night

January 23, 2005
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He will call if he wants to. You can do nothing to force him to. You can, however, next time you run into him tell him you'd love to hear from him or spend some time catching up.

You might not want to place your bets on this one, and just move along with your life. It sounds as if he's exploring his options.

January 23, 2005
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well I think artist has the right of it. We don't know what they want unless they tell us and lets face it - if they don't have the balls to tell us then are they the kind of men we want to spend time with? I don't know about you, but I would prefer to be with a man who was aggressive enough to fight for what he wants.

January 23, 2005
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Hi November: I just had cosmetic surgery this week and it is great! My bruises are yellow now but I liked the results the first day when I was puffy, swollen and purple. I had a modified brow lift and my upper and lower eyelids done. It is definately worth it. I'm glad you're excited, I was too. I think part of the recovery is your attitude going in. I can't wait for all of the stitches to dissolve so I can put on make up and go outside. Got a pair of Jackie O sunglasses so I can sneak out to the mailbox. Its pretty fun. Meanwhile I just keep looking at myself in the mirror and smiling! Good luck!!! Good for you! SD

January 23, 2005
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i haven't looked at this in this perspective and i really don't believe this is what it is. but the friend i called to find out what was going on has been his friend as well for over twenty years, this friend likes me but i didn't know that until i called. my oldest daughter said "well thats the problem, think about it, if your best friend liked someone would you go out with that person" no i wouldn't... so it could be that as well. just a thought.

January 23, 2005
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yeah it could be that he doesn't want to upset your friend. and while that stinks it is for the best to let it go.

January 23, 2005
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Tried to catch up with your thread. Sounds like the guy was "just talking" and not really interested in putting in the effort to pursue you.
He was just being smooth and complimentary to see your reaction?
Maybe he thought you would respond the same? Figuring out men is sometimes a guessing game.

January 23, 2005
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oh well, i am going to continue on.. i wish all that had not happened, the one thing out of the whole thing that i really don't understand is when my good looking friend came to the table and was talking and when he left then Wayne b lined over there and stood right beside me the rest of the night. ???? why did he do that. the good looking friend left but had Wayne not done that the other guy would have stayed and hung out with us. that right there i don't get if he wasn't interested then why bother to do all that. i know just let it go. whatever. who knows why he did that or if that is actually what he did and it just appeared that way.

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