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I am so loney!!
November 7, 2006
1:25 am
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I feel depressed because I feel so loney. I don't have someone to dating or possibly to have a relationship with. I am single over 3 years. I only get comments from guys that I am very attractive, but they only were interested in having sex with me. I refused to offer sex for them. I feel so loney that no one could come to me and want to date me. I have a college degree and have a circle of friends, but I am not able to find a right guy yet. I feel uncomfortable finding guys on the Internet because I have experienced some of them before. They didn't work out well for me.

Please tell me to cheer up. I don't want to be alone during the holidays.

November 7, 2006
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Sweetheart I am sorry that you are so lonely. Just remember the right guy will come when the time is right. For now just surround yourself with family and friends hunny.

November 7, 2006
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Silent Jaguar
You should cheer up. That's how you get people to want to know who you are... Have you ever felt like you were in the best relationship of your life and all of a sudden everybody notices you. That's because of the auora you project. When you are depressed or giving out negative vibes, turns people off. They want to know what it is that has you shinning so bright. Always remeber if you exist your soulmate exists. You might be single but try not to hold on to the negatives. They keep you confused and you could walk right pass the right one. So please cheer up. I have family and the holiday's are crazier than a normal day.
You could also just spend sometime with yourself-hobby.

November 7, 2006
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You know, not all guys who think you're attractive want sex.

I find myself attracted to many girls, and I've yet to have sex with any of them. I like to know who a person is and I love spending time with someone who I think wants to know me as well. Don't give guys sex and then you'll realize how much they really do like you because they'll leave or they'll stay. I'm a "stayer." Haha

Have hope, there are good guys out there who want to date you and be with you. Just like I'm sure there must be girls out there who want to date me and be with me. I don't know where they are, nor do I know who they are, but I do know that I will meet them someday. You will too.

I'm hoping to not be alone for the holidays either. I hope we both aren't.

November 7, 2006
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jag. i agree with the concept of the "vibe". the only way to get happy is by being happy, on our own. I'm just starting that journey myself - again.

i am scared of being alone for the rest of my life, i hope i find someone to share life with, but in the meantime, i have myself, and I like my company. i have a nice circle of friends and am reasonably close to my sisters.

happiness attracts happines, doom and gloom attracts the same or worse...the "evil" people out there that can "smell" the vulnerability or lack of self love and heck, none of us want those right!

i hear that too from guys - you are so attractive, smart, funny, kind, blablabla - . but i don't get asked out on dates....go figure. I have several guy friends, JUST friends, so, it baffles me. Though to be totally honest, I know my vibe now is: "don't get close or I'll bite your head off"....LOL. still trying to recover from being cruelly dumped by someone i loved. anyway, i really believe things happen at the right moment, someone perfect for you is going to appear at that moment, not sooner nor later.

so enjoy your company, take care of yourself, have fun with your friends, use your time wisely, and be happy. ahh, and the sex thing...well, we all need it, LOL! just don't expect a relationship from that, we all know it doesn't work that way. Maybe us women should learn to have sex just for the fun of it, the sport of it, without losing our self respect and our hearts.

November 7, 2006
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"need" sex... not here. i don't believe that. I'm a 20 year old male. and i don't need any intimacy more than a hug.

i think 'need' and 'want' are becoming too synonymous of each other recently. It makes life confusing.

November 7, 2006
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Blyxx -

I am so proud of you!!!! God, I can't believe a young male to think in such a mature & wise way like that at your young delicate age.

If only just a few male think like you....well, the problem of single ladies would be history...very soon. ROFLLLLLLLLLLL

Blessings, Ras~

November 7, 2006
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Hmm...No, I think sex is a big part of intimacy...I for one wouldn't want to swap hugs for sex, at least not all the time! LOL!

November 8, 2006
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I only say that for Jaguar because she needs to know that not all men want to have sex with girls just to date them. I've always wanted to move slow in relationships.

I say this so she knows there are guys out there that will do this for her. I know i'm not alone. They're there, you will find what you want.

November 8, 2006
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Silent Jaguar
So...Do you feel like your really alone? Girl, I can't tell.LOL
I just stopped in to check on you, hoping your feeling better about yourself today.

November 8, 2006
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I know exactly what you mean - its hard to be single in a couple's world. My friend and I were talking and he said he knew of only one couple that was actually "happy" with their relationship. That's pretty sad. I guess we all want what we don't have... Keep your chin up and I'm sure the dry spell will break soon enough. Good luck!

November 8, 2006
10:40 am
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Dear Silent Jaguar,

Are you sure you are lonely for a significant other person in your life?

It does seem like if you were involved with the interests that captivate you, you could find a niche and a group of other people who share the passion?

Maybe if you just decide to allow yourself to engage in whatever you enjoy -- art, music, exercise, books, theatre, travel......?????? -- it just seems like the right someone will turn up.

Are you a pretty attractive person and have you been "used" for your looks and sexual attraction before?

And have you only been meeting guys in all the wrong places?

Stay away from those places. Find other places 🙂

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