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I am never alone
January 26, 2005
5:07 pm
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Hey everyone.. It is the first time I ever wrote to anyone over the net like this. I needed to share my situation and find other people who has been in a similar situation before. I havent been single since I was 15. Over the last few years, I became less and less loyal to the people I love,lost my dignity, honesty. I simply dont know who I am any more. I hate to admit it but I cheat my boy friends almost at any given chance.
I do know that I should be alone for at least a year but every time I decide to be free of a relationship, I find a new person to fall in love with.
Thanks for reading this and tell me please I am the only one? /:)

January 26, 2005
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hmmmm, dont know what to say about the cheating part other then you must not be getting fullfilled with the ones you picked, maby you dont know what you really want? expecially easy if you havnt had time to develop who you really are by yourself. sounds like it may be time however. i never have really understood the cheating thing, i couldnt ever do it, too much guilt to harbor. maby you somewhere inside are comfortable with the drama of the situation, sorry i cant hellp more, i dont know first hand, but ill be here if you need to vent

January 26, 2005
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Could you be cheating because you like the attention. Sometimes we cheat because our self esteem and self worth are based on the affections of others. We have one person, but feed off the attention of others because in a weird way it makes us feel good to be wanted.

The only way to conquer that demon is to learn to love yourself so that your self worth and self esteem is not based on the attention of others.

Try to find what defines you when you are not with someone else. Are you content to be alone. Do you like who you are. What do YOU like about YOU?

Hope it helps.

t

January 26, 2005
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You're right. You are never alone. Even when you don't have a boyfriend you aren't alone.

...and you aren't the only one with this problem. I promise...

Love,

Ren'ai

January 26, 2005
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No. You're not alone. You are better off than most. At least you know that you don't know who you are. Now you know what you need to do. Believe it or not you're better off that a host of people who don't know who they are and couldn't find there way out of a paper bag.

You're still in the bag. This one is opened. I would start finding yourself by keeping a journal.

It's helped me.

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