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I am going through the changes in my early 30s
October 3, 2008
9:03 pm
Slient Jaguar
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I turned 30 years old last spring time. I have been notice some changes about myself.

I am getting confused when I have to make a decision. I have a hard time to know what I want sometimes. I have mixed emotions ups and downs.

Additionally,I am sexually frustrated. I decided to have a friend with benefits to help out with my needs. He has been giving me my needs. I still get aroused after having sex. After a few hours, my thoughts would say need more sex. I tried to focus on something else. I am still not satisfied, so I asked my friend if he would be okay if I can seeing other friends to help out when he is not available. He did not like the idea because of safety/health reasons. I do not want to hurt his feelings if I tell him that I am still sexually frustrated. He has been good to me. I have my own toy at home to use it when he is not around, but I feel I am not satisfied with the toy.

I feel that my sex drive has increased more than in my 20s. What I should do next to keep myself satisifed? FYI: I do not have any kids or been married before.

October 4, 2008
7:44 am
sad sack
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Nothing that I read here, indicates that you are going through "the change." Why do you feel that way?

October 5, 2008
10:41 pm
chelonia mydas
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Hi Silent Jaguar,

Have you thought about seeing a sex therapist? It sounds like there is just an increase in your sex drive.

Be safe if you are having multiple partners...

perhaps a variety of toys will help to curb your desires?

I have a low sex drive, so don't have any suggestions from personal experience.

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